Judith Orloff on attracting positive people, situations

In her article How to Attract Positive People and Situations, Judith Orloff, M.D. advises looking for signs of your positive intuitions such as:

* a feeling of comforting familiarity or brightness; you may sense you’ve known the person before, as with the experience of deja-vu

*you breathe easier, chest and shoulders are relaxed, gut is calm

* you find yourself leaning forward, not defensively crossing your arms or edging away to keep a distance

* your heart opens; you feel safe, peaceful, energized, expansive, or alive

[Photo: Scarlett Johansson with Jonathan Rhys-Meyers in "Match Point" - an example of a non-positive relationship, to say the least.]