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.. .. He had an alcoholic, schizophrenic, abusive father. His father held forty-four jobs in thirty-four years, often getting fired when he punched out his bosses - so the family was poor, and Koontz often spent time living with relatives and friends of the family. He became obsessed with comic books and science fiction novels and began writing books himself, which he sold for a nickel a piece to people in his neighborhood. He published his first book, a science fiction novel called Star Quest, in 1968. |
.. .. He finally made the hardcover bestseller list with his novel Strangers (1986), about a group of people across the country who slowly realize that they've been brainwashed by the government. ... Almost every book he has published has been a bestseller, and copies of his books have sold more than 200 million copies worldwide. His most recent book is The Taking.. writersalmanac.org 9 July, 2004 image
from novel The Taking - by Dean Koontz
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.. .. God was here before the marine corps, so you can give your heart to Jesus, but your ass belongs to the corps. /// There is no racial bigotry here. I do not look down on niggers, kikes, wops or greasers. Here, you are all equally worthless. |
"Full
Metal Jacket," based on Gustav Hasford's novel
"The Short-Timers," is a disturbing, indelible movie structured in two
parts -- the first is a boot camp opera, the Parris Island Follies, a drill
instructor's aria sung to a chorus of grunts...
The raw recruits, shorn of their hair and so their individuality, become crack combat troops under the tutelage of the archetypal Marine drill instructor... Tearing down their defenses, their relationships, realigning their sex drives, he marries love and violence, the soldier to his rifle. from
review by Rita Kempley,
Full
Metal Jacket (1987) [dvd]
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BUST magazine : "Bastard Out of Carolina" is so brutal to watch. I can't imagine how, as a really young, new actor, you were able to cope with playing a character who gets physically and sexually ravaged throughout an entire film. How did you do it? ![]()
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..Jena Malone : Someone really close to me was abused from when she was 18 months to 18 years old, so when I took the role I was aware of the idea of child abuse. Sex at that age is more like information, not knowledge. ![]()
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..But it was something I was familiar with, and I knew it was very important because a person close to me was affected by it so deeply and came out of it on the other end as a really beautiful and healthy person.
BUST, Summer 04
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.. .. The stories that she tells so masterfully hark back to the brutality of her childhood in the rural South and the women who loved but could not protect her from her violent stepfather. Allison made that world jump off the page in her much-acclaimed, best-selling novel Bastard Out of Carolina. Her newly published novel, Cavedweller, already on the New York Times bestseller list, moves forward in time, but is still very much an effort to understand the struggles of women -- young and old -- trying to make their way in the rural South. "I write who I can write -- people I can understand. I can understand deeply wounded, hidden kinds of girls," she says. She had originally sold the rights to Bastard Out of Carolina because she needed the money and she thought that, as people told her often happens in the industry, the movie would never be made. |
"This
is a story that if done badly I'da had to kill somebody... the whole possibilty
for gratuitous violence, the eroticization of the beaten child, [which]
is deeply offensive to me." ///
Overall, Allison is generous with director Anjelica Houston's work. "Actually, considering who she is and where she came from I think she did a damn fine job." .... "She got the incest beautifully. You can't watch that rape scene without the hair on the back of your neck comin' up, and she did it in a way that it's never been done before. "She made it completely plain what was going on. This is not sex; this is about destroying that child." /// Allison was disappointed by the large sections of the book that were omitted, including the lesbianism. "I miss desperately the parts they didn't use. They left out all the parts where [the girl] Bone has agency, where she's not a victim. "I complained about that with the script, but they didn't get it. I kept thinking I must not've done the book good enough if they didn't get it, so I'll try harder next time." from
interview
: Dorothy Allison: The Value of Redemption -
related
interview
by Douglas Eby with "Bastard Out of Carolina"
"Bastard Out of Carolina" [1996] DVD
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.. Patrick Bergin, Julia Roberts in "Sleeping With the Enemy" .. .. You might even be tempted to think that since the characters played by Goldie Hawn and Julia Roberts prevail through their own efforts over the murderous men stalking them that these are even in some sense feminist films. Don't you believe it; both are sheerest patriarchal propaganda pieces masquerading as women-friendly. Both films are filled with what feminist theorist Mary Daly calls reversals, where the real message is just the opposite of the ostensible one. |
The
worst example of this is in "Sleeping With the Enemy" where on the surface
the theme is how a woman in an abusive marriage is able to trick her husband
and escape and make a new life for herself.
But by portraying the husband as an elegant, wealthy madman.. the underlying text suggests that abusive husbands are insane and, by implication, rare. This belies the reality that it is an all too common practice in the United States, engaged in by "normal" males, who are criminal, but not considered insane in a society that encourages men to dominate women. .... Another reversal is that the wife is depicted as having the resolve and ability to plan and carry out an ingenious escape from this hideous marriage while the subtext seems to confirm the truth of the abusers standard threat that he will track her down no matter where she goes should she run away from him. How could that have anything but a horrifying effect on real women contemplating escape from an abusive situation? from
article A
Feminist Goes to the Movies -
Pure
Lust : Elemental Feminist Philosophy --
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.. .. Awful Normal- An Independent Film [site] When Karen and Celesta Davis were molested in 1978, "little" was being done about sexual abuse. ... Twenty-five years later, the now grown women still feel unresolved. Haunted not only by their abuse and their parents' inaction, but also by a community made vulnerable to a perpetrator never reported to the authorities, they decide they must find him, and face him with what he did. /// [You
say at the end of the film that it
Celesta Davis - Director/Producer : I'm constantly discovering. Some of it's bizarre, like I don't get afraid to go outside at night alone anymore, or, I have an astoundingly easier time asserting myself personally and professionally than I used to. ... I was excited to get on with my life, and Chuck, our therapist, had told me to expect changes, some dramatic, some less dramatic, now that I'd done this [made the movie]. |
.. .. And as I went to get on the plane, a specific place I always wore my ring to assure I wouldn't get hassled, I realized that I wasn't afraid of getting hassled anymore, and that I didn't need the ring. I could wear it, but I could just as easily not, and say no to anyone who was too forward with me, or made me uncomfortable. It was so liberating. I'd just gotten over a fear of saying no to men in a small but dramatic way. That was just the first of many small, but obvious steps I've taken in the last year and a half. I've broken patterns I've followed and lived with for years as a result of fear. Fear that I didn't know I had. And fear that I'm now in the process of overcoming. |
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...Are You Bleeding Yet? - by Ida Applebroog
Serial murders, regular murders, child abuse, AIDS, war, sexism, ageism, drugs, vandalism, terrorism, the environment, gang rape, regular rape, euthanasia, death camps, battered women, sadism, masochism, homophobia, censorship, homelessness.
This is our world, I dissect it, I assemble it, I call it art. -- Ida Applebroog
drawing : Thank You Very Much, 1982 - by Ida Applebroog
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.. .. .. I was
an unmarried girl
Joni Mitchell, "The Magdalene Laundries" Here is a movie about barbaric practices against women, who were locked up without trial and sentenced to forced, unpaid labor for such crimes as flirting with boys, becoming pregnant out of wedlock, or being raped. |
These
inhuman punishments did not take place in Afghanistan under the Taliban,
but in Ireland under the Sisters of Mercy.
And they are not ancient history. The Magdalene Laundries flourished through the 1970s and processed some 30,000 victims; the last were closed in 1996. /// Raised in the Catholic Church in America at about the same time, I had nothing but positive experiences. The Dominican Sisters who taught us were dedicated, kind and brilliant teachers, and when I see a film like this I wonder what went wrong in Ireland -- or right at St. Mary's Grade School in Champaign-Urbana. "The Magdalene Sisters" focuses on the true stories of three girls who fell into the net. As the film opens, we see Margaret (Anne-Marie Duff) lured aside by a relative at a family wedding, and raped. When she tells a friend what has happened, the word quickly spreads, and within days it is she, not the rapist, who is punished. The Magdalene Sisters (2002) [dvd] |
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.. .. She is weeping and shamed, her face is as scarlet as her red-hot bottom... But life is dirtier than porn, and I didn't get the idea from a wank book. I got it out of the newspaper. It was a small story reprinted in the "No Comment" section of Ms., and it reported that, somewhere in the Midwest, a lawyer running for public office had been revealed to have abused his former secretary by spanking her and videotaping her standing in a corner repeating, "I am stupid." On being revealed, he sought to make things right by apologizing and giving the woman $200. |
.. .. On reading it I smiled, then shook my head in dismay, then thought, what a great story--funny, horrible, poignant, and gross, the misery of it as deep as the eroticism; the misery in fact giving the eroticism it's most pungent force. The wank-book aspect was clearly indispensable, but what interested me most was: Who is this girl? The Hopeful Innocent in the porn story, the cipher in the news story? What would she be like in real life? Mary
Gaitskill [above] - from her article
On the Film
"Secretary"
[with James Spader & Maggie Gyllenhaal [dvd]
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...more material on "Secretary" on page: sexuality : page 2
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In this book I have given the reader an uncensored, inside look at all the workings of the sex industry, from movies and magazines to men's clubs and all that goes along with it. .... As the first Native American porn star, I show you how this line of work is seen in the eyes of my people and I share some of the healing ceremonies I have experienced.
Why would a sexually abused and abandoned young woman decide to get into such a business? Many women say it is empowering. ... Why do they say it increases their self-esteem? Why have so many.. committed suicide?
...The Secret Lives of Hyapatia Lee by Hyapatia Lee
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Anne Sexton.. was never at ease with the life prescribed for her. Her father was an alcoholic, and her mother's literary aspirations had been frustrated by family life. ... Sexton's biographer, Diane Middlebrook, recounts possible sexual abuse by Anne's parents during her childhood; at the very least, Anne felt that her parents were hostile to her and feared that they might abandon her.
from profile by Linda Wagner-Martin [Univ. of Illinois]
Anne Sexton : A Biography - by Diane Middlebrook // The Complete Poems
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.. .. from review by Roger Ebert [suntimes.com 10/14/1988] "The Accused" demonstrates that rape victims often are suspects in their own cases. Surely they must have been somehow to blame. How were they behaving at the time of the crime? How were they dressed? Had they been drinking? Is their personal life clean and tidy? Or are they sluts who were just asking for it? I am aware of the brutal impact of the previous sentence. But the words were carefully chosen, because sometimes they reflect the unspoken suspicions of officials in the largely male judicial system. |
"The
Accused" is a movie about Sarah Tobias, a young woman who is not a model
citizen. One night she has a fight with her live-in boyfriend, who is a
drug dealer.
She goes to a sleazy bar and has too much to drink, and does a provocative dance to the jukebox, and begins to flirt with a man in the bar's back room. And then things get out of hand. The man, also drunk, picks her up and lays her down on top of a pin-ball machine, and begins to assault her. /// The film shows most of this sequence only later, in a flashback. Its opening scenes deal with the immediate aftermath of the rape, as the woman (Jodie Foster) is moved through the emergency care and legal systems, where she meets professionals who are courteous and efficient, but not overly sympathetic. Then she meets Kathryn Murphy (Kelly McGillis), the assistant district attorney who will handle her case. ~ ~ ~ [According to other articles, Kelly McGillis reportedly wanted this role, at least in part, because of her own rape in 1982.] The Accused [dvd] |
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One of the primary developmental tasks of childhood and adolescence, the definition of sexuality - of one's sexual identity and orientation, of the meaning of sexual experience and interpersonal relationships with respect to sex - may be profoundly altered and disrupted through sexual abuse. from article Cognitive Accommodations to Childhood Sexual Abuse -
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![]() "I wanted to see what makes a modern-day Beethoven-Janis Joplin tick," explains Gigi Gaston [above]. ... Sophie B. Hawkins [right] and the film makers explored the dark secrets of Sophie's childhood [including sexual abuse] and the murky memories that have held her captive in isolated pain... the pain soulfully heard so often in her songs. She discusses these memories and all of her childhood issues with her mother after years of silence. She searches for the truth in order to expel feelings of hidden shame, all the while struggling with the ever present dichotomy of an artist -- to be publicly private. Gaston says she admires the honesty on both sides which made these revelations possible. ... "Sophie has had to face that darkness in order to evolve into a whole person -- I think she knows who she is now, and I think she's incredibly brave to let me photograph it while it's happening. That's why this movie will be great for kids. ... Whether you're five or fifty you can do anything you want -- you follow your dream, and nothing can stop you: no parents, no family traumas, nothing. She's proof of that." from
article on film: The
Cream Will Rise directed by Gigi Gaston -
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.. .. [You say in your video that you think you were never meant to be damaged, that you are a phoenix. Is music your rebirth?] Sophie B. Hawkins : Yes. Absolutely. It's in that struggle with music. Everyone has to have their own way of doing it. Some people can get into certain religions the way it has been done before, but for me, everyone has to find their own way to be reborn, to purify themselves. Drums are so open, and that's why I study lots of instruments. To find my own music is a struggle, to search and my soul finally says, "ahhh". The lyrics come out as if they've been waiting for me to find them. That's the key: Beauty. Struggle. But when you find it, what liberation. [from lesbianation.com interview] ~ ~ You are
the darkest childe
lyrics
from "The Darkest Childe"
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Kelly St. John went on with her life [following her rape at age 14]... Her documentary "Forever Fourteen".. won an Emmy Award last month for outstanding informational programming. In the film, which she made for her thesis project while a student at the University of California at Berkeley Graduate School of Journalism, St. John tells the heartbreaking story of Wendy's murder [another 14-year-old girl raped by the same man] and of her own survival.
Never sensationalistic, she quietly interviews Wendy's parents and her own family while exploring the themes of loss, luck, and violence against girls and women. ///
Whether working in print or through film, St. John hopes to continue covering social issues while getting beyond that sensationalism and dramatization that permeates so much of the media today.
"I'm attracted to stories that have emotional resonance," she says, citing a recent story she wrote about a heroin-addicted baby and how his death affected the hospital nurses who cared for him. ![]()
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.."There are still social ills that haven't been resolved," she adds. "I'm interested in putting a human face on them."
from Women's Enews article, October 25, 2002
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Maya Angelou is a survivor and one of the greatest poets of our time. She is an example of great courage and inspiration. She was a victim of sexual assault at the age of 7 and she spent 5 years refusing to speak to anyone but her brother.
In 1945 she graduated from high school and became a single mother.
In 1961 Maya moved with her family to Africa for 5 years, where she worked as an editor and assistant administrator.
In 1969 her first book was published, "I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings.
Maya Angelou: I think that we ought to send a message to brutes that we will not tolerate abuse, that we don't like it, and will not tolerate it, and by doing so we really have a chance to evict fear from your psyche. ![]()
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..Fear saps your strength, it can immobilise you.
I think you have to say, "I don't need that".
from article on Dancing In The Darkness site
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