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A Great Lesson in Letting Go
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Guy Finley

Guy Finley is Founder and Director of the Life of Learning Foundation, devoted to helping people realize their True Relationship with Life. His works have sold over a million copies worldwide and have been translated into twelve languages.
 
By Guy Finley
Published on 09/1/2006
 
We must no longer allow ourselves to identify with any negative state, regardless of why that state tells us we must embrace its painful presence. That is to say, we must become as ruthless in detecting and rejecting these dark thoughts and feelings as they have been ruthless in wrecking our lives.