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James Ray: 'Born into Greatness,
Conditioned into Mediocrity'
by Janet Attwood and and Bill Harris
We’re
interviewing a man who has enjoyed great success in the corporate arena
and then followed his passions to the far corners of the globe to learn
the wisdom of the most ancient cultures in the world.
James
Ray spent five years as one of AT&T’s top sales managers, four
years as a personal and business-growth expert with AT&T’s School
of Business, and four years working with best-selling author, Stephen
Covey.
He left the corporate world to study the wisdom of the ancients in
Peru, the jungles of the Amazon and the deserts of Egypt.
Today,
he is CEO and president of James Ray International, and his Journey of
Power Program shows participants how to bridge the gap between
real-world success and spiritual fulfillment.
I met James through Jack Canfield, co-creator of the Chicken Soup for
the Soul series. James and I are both members of the Transformational
Leadership Council, founded by Jack several years ago.
James
is a man of great integrity who communicates some of the most
fundamental truths of life with power and skill.
It’s also a great honor to have my other friend, Bill Harris, the
founder and director of Centerpointe Research Institute, and another
member of the Transformational Leadership Council, as co-host for this
interview.
Bill Harris: I’ve known
James for a while now and he is a really remarkable person. I think it
would behoove everybody to listen very carefully to what he has to say
and take it very seriously, because this guy really has it together in
a wide range of areas.
I know, James, that one of the things that’s really remarkable about
you is that you started off in the corporate success-oriented world and
moved into the more metaphysical, spiritual world, in terms of the
stuff you teach.
Then
you found a way to combine both of these in a very seamless way. A lot
of people segment these two areas of life. Tell us how you did that and
how you see those things being combined?
James Ray: One of the
things we find in a lot of ”spiritual” traditions is that they tend to
believe that, to want a nice home, a fine suit, to want a beautiful
body, or to be attractive is not “spiritual,” and that’s a profound
“ignore-ance,” in my opinion. The reason that is hyphenated means
“ignore-ance” of the unity of one.
Every great spiritual tradition teaches us that all things come from a
single source. Every great scientific tradition, even current quantum
physics, tell us that everything comes from the same source.
Whether
you call that the zero-point field in quantum physics, or whether you
call that God in spiritual traditions, the source is the same.
What I realized a long time ago is that any time you damn any part of
creation, you damn God. That really pushed against my programming,
growing up in very traditional religious upbringing, but I’ve kind of
always pushed against my programming, and realized that that’s
important to do.
I
started questioning when I was really young, Bill. I was kind of a
weird kid.
Bill Harris: You’re still
a weird kid.
James Ray: I am, and
that’s why we like each other! When most kids were out running to
parties, going to movies and doing things that young people do, I was
home trying to figure out how the universe works.
I
started studying Buddhism in a strict, Christian household when I was
18 years old, which is kind of bizarre.
I can’t remember a time, really, when I wanted anything more than to
understand the laws of the universe, how they worked, and how they
applied to every area of life.
So
when I went into a traditional business arena, as you mentioned, AI was
very successful there. One of the people I studied with, whom I’m a fan
of, and he’s a friend of yours as well, is Ken Wilber. Wilber says, “As
you evolve, you have to transcend and include.”
What
that means to me, from a practical standpoint, is that as I evolve and
grow, I don’t suppress or let go of the things that are of a physical
nature, to soar into the realms of spirit. I firmly believe that the
practical mystic is a person who can soar into the mystical realms, but
come back and ground that as a physical plane. That’s why I believe
we’re here.
Bill Harris: I find
people who are so “spiritual” that there are a lot of parts of the
world and of life that are not okay, to be very dry and brittle. It’s
not a lot of fun to be around them. A lot of people who are really
serious about the spiritual path go through a phase where they do that.
Hopefully,
they come out the other end where they realize, like you said, that you
need to transcend and include, and that it’s not money and possessions
that are a problem, really—it’s attachment to them.
James Ray: You’re right.
I study with some really enlightened people. By the way, I believe we
have this misnomer about enlightenment. I think that, if you look at
the prefix “en-,” from Latin, it means “to be.”
So
enlightenment is to “be light.” Well, quantum physics tells us that
every single thing in our universe, every single manifest entity, is
99.99999% light.
So you’re already enlightened. When we talk about enlightenment, we
tend to think, in many circles, that we have to wear white robes, eat a
lot of legumes and talk in a soft, harmonious whisper and never have
sex.
Bill Harris: That’s the
way I do it, except for the last part.
James Ray: Well count me
out, because if that’s enlightenment, I don’t want any part of it, and
I don’t think you do either, Bill, quite frankly.
Bill Harris: This is
mostly because you don’t like beans, right…or you do like sex?
James Ray: Yes, both of
the above. But here’s the thing. Any time you damn any part of
creation, you damn God, because it’s all the same stuff, if you will.
That’s
another reason why I firmly believe that Eastern mysticism is never
going to play to a large audience in the Western world, because Eastern
mysticism, by and large—and of course, I’m generalizing here to some
degree—is about turning away from sitting in one space and jumping into
God.
That’s one thing you can do, there’s a time and place for that, and
you’re right. I went through those phases where I thought I didn’t want
any material possessions, I just want to have a spiritual experience,
and I had profound meditative experiences at one time, I thought, “I
don’t want to come back,” because this is really way cool.”
I quote Pierre Teilhard de Chardin quite frequently. A long time ago,
he said, “You’re not a physical being having a spiritual experience;
you’re a spiritual being having a physical experience.”
Bill Harris: It’s
interesting that you would bring this up, this idea of having such
profound experiences that you don’t want to come back. One of the
things I’ve always taught is that people are creating a reality with
their minds.
The reason they’re not seeing the reality that’s talked about by
mystics—the idea that it’s all one energy and so on and so forth—is
because the reality you’re creating with your mind, which essentially
chops up the oneness into all these pieces, conceptually, because these
pieces don’t really exist in reality, as long as you’re focused in this
reality you’re creating with your mind, you miss the other reality.
So the first stage of spiritual growth, if people get that far, is one
where they begin to actually experience the fact that there is a
reality created by their minds, but it isn’t the reality, and they
begin to experience and perceive that reality.
A lot of times, people think, especially at first, “I don’t want to
come back.” A higher level, in my opinion, is when you go back into the
world created by the mind, but this time you realize that it is
something you’re making up, but you can go back into it and play.
James Ray: That’s a heck
of a lot of fun.
Bill Harris: It is a heck
of a lot of fun, and that’s when you have the ability to create
whatever you want in the world. If you’re not going to play in this
world, there’s no point in being here.
James Ray: Why did you
even come here? Going back to your spiritual being having a physical
experience, from Chardin, my addendum to that is, “Please remember, you
are having a physical experience,” so there’s a reason why you’re here.
A lot
of people who are spiritual aspirants may want to argue with me on
this, but keep open minded.
I have never once met an individual who is in a non-dual state all the
time. You can’t function in the third dimension in a non-dual state.
You’re
absolutely correct, Bill, this reality we create with our minds is what
we’re experiencing in the third dimension, and here’s now I
differentiate them—I say reality is the third dimension, but actuality
is beyond the third dimension.
They’re different. Reality is only what you create in a dualistic
plane. One of the laws in our universe, in the third dimension, is the
law of polarity.
For
there to be up, there has to be a down; for there to be in, an out—and
that’s also called duality. It cannot be any other way. That’s reality
in the third dimension, and you tend to look at reality with your eyes
and react to reality.
However, when you actually tap into actuality, which is above the
dualistic plane, then you can act, and that’s a big difference. If we
want to merge quantum physics here with what we’re talking about, with
mysticism, a photon is timeless, spaceless, massless and chargeless. It
does not exist.
Everything comes from photons of light. A photon does not exist in the
third dimension because it’s timeless, spaceless, massless and
chargeless. That’s what I would call actuality. Then that photon
divides for manifestation purposes, into a positron and electron.
A positron has a positive charge; an electron has a negative charge.
That’s duality and that’s where reality is created by our minds, and is
through the observation of saying, “This is good, this is bad.”
Bill Harris: Which are
all distinctions we create conceptually and aren’t really intrinsic to
reality. There’s something added by the mind.
James Ray: I would say,
for my terminology, that they are intrinsic to reality; they’re not
intrinsic to actuality.
Bill Harris: Okay. It
depends on what you mean by reality. I meant Reality with a big R,
which is what you’re calling actuality.
James Ray: Which kind of
makes it a little easier to differentiate for me.
Bill Harris: Let me
circle around here for a minute because the whole purpose of this
series is the idea of passion. You definitely sound very passionate
about all of this, and I can tell by your history that, even as a
child, you were very passionate about all of this.
What role do you see passion playing in this whole thing? We’re talking
about a certain amount of archean stuff, rather than day-to-day
problems that people are experiencing. How does this stuff apply? Why
should somebody be passionate about this and why are you passionate
about it?
James Ray: It’s my life.
To answer your first question about what role passion plays, it’s the
primary driver. Inspiration, or passion, is what motivates you, long
term, to continue to act.
When
you’re inspired or when you’re really passionate about something, no
one or no thing outside of you needs to provide motivation. That
inspiration or passion comes from inside of you, and you pursue this
because it’s your love.
Your work becomes your love, made manifest through action. I believe
the person who really understands these concepts understands that to
pursue your passion, the individual who is really (who I call) the
practical mystic, or the passionate individual pursuing their dreams in
life and creating their reality, must understand that you have to
embrace pain and pleasure in the pursuit of your passion or purpose.
Those are going to occur in a dualistic plane. If you understand, from
a quantum physics standpoint, that for every positron, which is
positive, and let’s say it says you make $100,000 a year (or whatever
your goal is), and you say that’s positive, then in duality, there has
to be a corresponding “negative.”
The master is the individual who understands that and embraces both the
pain and the pleasure in the pursuit of his or her passion.
Bill,
you run a big business and so do I. I can reflect back on the day when
I was a solo act in my business and there were a lot of things about
those days that are really attractive now when I start to think about
all the business, employee and legal issues, et cetera, that I must
embrace now to run a multi-million-dollar business,.
That’s just part of it. We have this Pollyanna, lopsided perception of
what reality is supposed to be. Therefore, we become disempowered and
under enthusiastic in what we’re pursuing. Does that make sense to
you?....
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