The way that we say things often masks the anxiety that we're feeling.
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Eric Maisel
Creativity coach and therapist Eric Maisel, PhD is author of many books, including Coaching the Artist Within; A Life in the Arts; Fearless Creating; Ten Zen Seconds, and The Van Gogh Blues.
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By Eric Maisel
Published on 09/11/2006
We have our little linguistic tricks that help us avoid the experience
of anxiety, but those same linguistic tricks keep us from doing the
work that we hope to do and prevent us from achieving our goals.