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Addiction to Thinking
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Margaret Paul
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the author and co-author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?" and “Healing Your Aloneness.” She is the co-creator of the Inner Bonding healing process.  
By Margaret Paul
Published on 09/21/2006
 
Many us of are addicted to thinking. We believe if we can just figure things out we can control others and the outcome of things. We want to control how people feel about us and treat us by saying just the right thing - so we have to think about it over and over to discover the right thing to say.