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Persistence
by Bob Proctor
If you
were to choose just one part of your personality to develop that would
virtually guarantee your success, I'd like to suggest that you place
persistence at the top of your list.
Napoleon Hill, in his classic Think and Grow Rich felt so strongly
about this subject, he devoted an entire chapter to it. Hill suggested,
"There may be no heroic connotation to the word persistence but the
quality is to your character what carbon is to steel."
Think about it. If you took a quick mental walk down memory lane and
reviewed some of your accomplishments in the past – large and small –
you would have to agree that persistence played an important role in
your success.
Napoleon Hill studied many of the world's most successful people. He
pointed out the only quality he could find in Henry Ford, Thomas Edison
or a host of other notable greats, that he could not find in everyone
else was persistence.
What I
found even more intriguing was the fact that Hill made comment of the
fact that these individuals were often misunderstood to be ruthless or
cold-blooded and that this misconception grew out of their habit of
following through in all of their plans with persistence.
It's both interesting and sadly amusing to me that, as a society, we
would be quick to criticize people for realizing they had an
unshakeable power within them and were capable of overcoming any
obstacle outside of them.
This
power would ultimately move them toward a greater chance of achieving
any goal they set for themselves!
Milt Campbell is a good friend of mine. He and I have shared many hours
together discussing the very topic of persistence. Milt was a
Decathlete in the Olympic Games held in Helsinki, Finland in 1952.
His
goal was to capture gold for the US. Unfortunately, another fierce
competitor who had taken home the gold four years previous in London
wasn't satisfied with one gold, Bob Mathias wanted two; Milt had to
settle for silver.
That
did not deter Milt one bit. He had formed the habit of persistence and
four years later in Melbourne, Australia, Milt won the gold medal,
earning him the title of the greatest athlete in the world.
On numerous occasions Milt has said, "There were many guys in school
who were far better athletes than me, but they quit."
I can
recount story after story about individuals who overcame obstacles so
great, but only did so because they dared persist. These individuals
are no different than you and I.
Ultimately persistence becomes a way of life, but that is not where it
begins. To develop the mental strength – persistence - you must first
want something.
You
have to WANT something so much that it becomes a heated desire... a
passion in your belly. You must fall in love with that idea. Yes,
literally fall in love with the idea and magnetize yourself to every
part of the idea. At that point, persistence will be virtually
automatic.
Persistence is a subject I have studied all of my adult life and I can
tell you one thing I know for certain: very few people ever, mentally
or verbally, say to themselves... this is what I really want and I am
prepared to give my life for it, and thus, they never develop the
persistence to achieve it.
Persistence is a unique mental strength; a strength that is essential
to combat the fierce power of the repeated rejections and numerous
other obstacles that sit in waiting and are all part of winning in a
fast-moving, ever-changing world.
As
Napoleon Hill found out, there are hundreds of highly successful men
and women who have cut a path for others to follow, while leaving their
mark on the scrolls of history … and every one of these great
individuals was persistent.
In
many cases it was the only quality that separated them from everyone
else.
It is generally believed that a lack of persistence is a consequence of
a weak willpower. That is not true. A person could have a highly
evolved willpower and still lack the persistence required to keep
moving forward in life.
In
more cases than not, if a person lacks persistence, they do not have a
goal that is worthy of them, a desirable goal that excites them to
their very core.
Though willpower is important in moving a person toward their goal, if
there is ever a war between the will and the imagination, the
imagination will win every time.
What
that means is: you're powered by desire and fuelled by the dream you
hold.
Once
you start to use your imagination to help you build a bigger picture of
your dream, to define and refine it until you get it just right in your
mind, the emotion that is triggered by that desire far outweighs any
force that may be caused by sheer will alone.
I am
not suggesting the will does not have to be developed, it does. It must
become highly developed in order to direct you toward the image with
which you are emotionally involved.
Your intellectual factors hold the potential for enormous good when
they are properly employed. However, you must remember that everything
has an opposite and any of your intellectual factors can turn, without
warning, into destructive lethal enemies when they are directed toward
results that are not wanted.
It is
easy to find individuals who are persistently doing what they don't
want to do and achieving results that they do not want.
A lack
of persistence is not their problem; that person is persisting to their
own detriment. Ignorance and paradigms are the enemy that we must
defeat.
Everyone
is persistent. Our objective must be to put persistence to work for us
rather than against us.
Vision and desire have to be the focus of your attention if you're
going to develop persistence into the great ally it can become.
Another excellent example of persistence was demonstrated when, in
1953, a beekeeper from Auckland, N.Z., Edmund Hillary and his native
guide, Tenzing Norguay, became the first two people to climb Mt.
Everest and return, after having tried and failed the two previous
years.
Hillary had two obvious character strengths that took him to the very
top —- vision and desire. Even despite the seemingly insurmountable
challenges, he had no trouble persisting with the strenuous acts that
were required because every act was hooked into the image of him
standing on top of the mountain.
They
were expressed because of his persistence, but he was persistent
because he was emotionally involved with the image. Without
persistence, all his skills would have meant nothing.
Persistence is an expression of the mental strength that is essential
in almost every profession, where repeated rejection and obstacles are
part of a daily routine.
In closing, let me give you four relatively simple steps that will help
you to turn persistence into a habit. These steps can be followed by
virtually anyone.
1. Have a clearly defined goal. The goal must be something you are
emotionally involved with, something you want very much. (In the
beginning, you may not even believe that you can accomplish it -- the
belief will come.)
2. Have a clearly established plan that you can begin working on
immediately. (Your plan will very likely only cover the first and
possibly the second stage of the journey to your goal. As you begin
executing your plan, other steps required to complete your journey will
be revealed at the right time.)
3. Make an irrevocable decision to reject any and all negative
suggestions that come from friends, relatives or neighbors. Do not give
any conscious attention to conditions or circumstances that appear to
indicate the goal cannot be accomplished.
4. Establish a mastermind group of one or more people who will
encourage, support and assist you wherever possible.
What do you dream of doing with your life? Do it. Begin right now and
never quit. There is greatness in you. Let it out. Be persistent.
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From
Jim Rohn's Weekly E-zine, May 9, 2006 -
See his site Jim Rohn
International
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