Douglas Eby
Douglas Eby is author of the site - Talent Development Resources - and a writer and researcher in the areas of gifted adults and the psychology of creativity and personal growth.
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Miley Cyrus and our fascination with teen sexuality
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 05/3/2008
- Teen/Young Adult Talent
A recent Associated Press article talks about actress, singer and songwriter Miley Cyrus and her “controversial photo” at age 15 in Vanity Fair as presenting “a great opportunity for parents to discuss how seemingly innocuous photos posted to a blog or social networking site can be misinterpreted.” ... But acclaimed author Germaine Greer points out, “Sexually knowing 15-year-olds are normal."
She Is Running The Show
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 03/22/2008
- Achievement / Vocation
Many talented women in film such as Charlize Theron
and Natalie Portman are finding more creative fulfillment as executives
and producers, not waiting for better acting roles.
But what sorts of challenges do women face when changing or expanding
their career choices, especially in such a male-dominated business?
Making Good Use of Depression
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 03/16/2008
- Depression
Depression
can be a profoundly damaging and disrupting condition, spiritually and
psychologically corrosive, preventing us from living fully and
realizing our talents. But a number of people also say the experience
has had real value for them.
Psychiatrist Kay Redfield Jamison first planned her own
suicide at 17,
and attempted to carry it out at 28. Referring
to her bipolar disorder,
she has said, "I have felt more things, more deeply..."Learning to live with social anxiety
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 01/29/2008
- Social Anxiety
Shyness, social anxiety, social phobia, introversion - one of the problems in using these labels about ourselves is they are often too unspecific and relative: shy compared with whom? How anxious, for how long, in what situations?
Learning to befriend our demons
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 01/4/2008
- Mental health & fitness
"My therapist gives me
permission to accept that I'm human."
Actor Claire Danes also explained, "I
finally realized after years of therapy.. that you can encourage
yourself to move further in a nurturing way." Taking care to "encourage yourself to move further" is, of course,
something that people typically choose to manage on their own, but a
counselor or therapist can help us do it more fully and effectively. Self-esteem: what's so good about it?
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 01/3/2008
- Self concept / self esteem
Gene Simmons commented, "You can't get too full of yourself. The more accolades you get, the more money you make , it tends to dull the senses." Most of us aren't rock stars and large scale entrepreneurs and producers like Simmons, but many people with high ability and talent can suffer from self-criticism that erodes positive self-regard, and a realistic perception of the value of their own work.
Gifted, Talented, Addicted
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 11/13/2007
- High Ability - gifted/talented , Addiction
A
number of people with exceptional abilities have used drugs and
alcohol as self-medication to ease the pain of their high sensitivity, or as
a way to enhance thinking and creativity. Sometimes they risk addiction.
The Dark Side of Fame
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 11/13/2007
- Achievement / Vocation
Many
creative people actively pursue fame, or at least endure it, as a
way to advance their careers. But fame may also be driven by hidden
emotional needs, and can lead to harmful expectations and distorted
thinking on both sides.
Is Intellect an Albatross?
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 11/13/2007
- High Ability - gifted/talented
Arianna Huffington is described by her
friend and author Sugar Rautbord as
“probably one of the most intellectually seductive human beings on the
face of the planet. She has such a powerful brain, and she exudes an
intellectuality that is almost sexual."
Does
that sort of exceptional mind have potential negative consequences,
particularly for women?
Don’t mess with my brain
- By Douglas Eby
- Published 11/1/2007
- Mental health & fitness
That horror [in the movie "One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s
Nest"] taps into a primal fear: having our mind - particularly any
exceptional talents and creative abilities - compromised or taken away
because of some medical intervention. Even if - unlike in the movie - it is supposed to help us.