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Are ADD and ADHD Mistaken Interpretations
of Skills?
- An Exercise
by
Jack Elias
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belief in a poor concept or poor interpretation of circumstances, or
of yourself, can cause you to think you are disabled.
This
example is specifically addressing someone's question about treating
ADHD. The ADHD diagnosis may be an unhelpful interpretation of the
person's behavior that blocks the appreciation of helpful
possibilities.
Here
is a procedure that can help such a person connect with abilities they
may be under-utilizing.
The process has application beyond ADHD to skillfully help yourself or
another expand capabilities that may be limited just because you
are being "hypnotized" by a poor interpretation.
"What if you were to consider that ADD & ADHD were mistaken
evaluations of skills and abilities?"
According to the studies I have read (they tend to find faults, where I
find strengths ) people diagnosed with these "conditions" are mostly
above average intelligence, and very skilled in certain areas (often
physical skills, such as sports, but some are good at conceptual ways
of thinking as well).
Imagine that you were to ask the person what their favorite activities
are and then get them to notice and how they are and how they feel when
doing that activity.
1) In the case that the activity is a physical one, I ask them to stand
up.
2) Then anchor the strong good feelings and self-appreciation that they
experience at that time (use their words and ask them questions to
elicit as many expressions of their skills in that area as possible.)
Anchor this state with a physical anchor such as pressing their thumb
and forefinger together -- their choice of hand.
3) Then have them shake like a dog getting out of the water, and,
4) Ask them to go to that place where IN THE PAST they have felt or
BEEN TOLD that they have WHAT HAS BEEN CALLED ADHD.
5) While in that memory, create anchors associated with this "negative"
state, (usually criticism from others, lack of confidence or
understanding). The anchor can be just pressing the fingers of the
other hand together.
6) Then put all the feelings of one state in one hand and all those of
the other state in the other hand.
7) Merge the anchors by having them clasp their hands together tightly
and speak about the strengths they have in one hand, and what is in
that other hand? And the tighter they clasp their hands, the more the
hands become as one as the strengths flow everywhere.
8) Ask how quickly they can feel the strengths flowing from the areas
where they are most effective to the areas that can use those strengths
in new ways. Feel the flow until you can search and find that same
strength wherever you look or feel. Somehow you simply know that every
cell has access to the strength whenever you need it.
If you have hypnotherapy or NLP training, you are probably familiar
enough with this example to take yourself through this process with
ADHD or with any "block."
The
secret is to find an ability you have, but just don't use in the
blocked circumstances, and connect it to those circumstances by the
piece of theater called merging anchors -- here done with clasping of
hands.
Copyright, 2006, Jack Elias
http://www.FindingTrueMagic.com
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Jack Elias is author of Finding
True Magic: Transpersonal Hypnotherapy / NLP
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