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Are Successful People Really Luckier? You Bet They Are By Valerie Young When Stephen Fofanoff and Chris Warnock
needed a Chief Financial Officer (CFO) willing to work on an equity
basis to help them take their fledging design consulting business, A
Designer's Eye (ADesignersEye.com), to the next level, they came up
with a novel approach - they advertised on Craig's List
(CraigsList.com). Nearly three dozen people responded. The
applicant they decided to go with is a former CFO for a major
corporation who left to start his own highly successful software
business. With his own company in maintenance mode, the guy was just
looking for a challenge. In other words, instead of investing
money they're investing their time. [See the Changing
Course site for more about this workshop.] Seeking people to help you grow your
business on an equity basis is interesting in and of itself. But I was
equally fascinated that they thought to advertise for a CFO on Craig's
List. I thought it was simply brilliant. Apparently though, not everyone looked at
it this way. One of the participants remarked on her evaluation that
she didn't find Stephen's talk as beneficial as the other panelist's
because in her words, he "got lucky." Despite a life-long love for magic, Tom
Krzystof (TKMagic.com) followed the conventional career path by working
for major companies like Mediatech and FedEx while continuing to pursue
his passion for magic on the side. This included spending two and a
half years leaving his day job to perform magic at a local restaurant. Much to his surprise, the food exec
thought it was a great deal and so off Tom went on a grueling, but
highly profitable, multi-city tour. Whenever Tom talked about this turning
point in his magic career he'd say "after the Chef Boyardee deal fell
in my lap." While most of the attendees nodded in agreement, I knew
something else was going on. The newsletter was eight pages long and
took a fair amount of work to put together. I'd attracted a few hundred
subscribers but certainly not enough to pay the bills. I was close to
folding the newsletter when suddenly I was flooded with orders. In
three days I made $5,000. At $29 per subscription that's a lot of
subscriptions! Imagine my surprise when the link led to
an article I'd submitted two years earlier to CareerBuilder.com. When
readers got to the end of the article, they found a link to my website
and ultimately the order page. Since I wasn't asking to be paid, he said
sure. At first I was diligent about sending in articles once a month.
As things got busy in my own work life, my submissions trailed off to
whenever I got around to it. In the meantime, and totally unbeknownst
to me, CareerBuilder had partnered with MSN. About a year later though, MSN dropped
CareerBuilder and partnered instead with Monster.com. Someone bought
CareerBuilder and fired most of their staff. The party was over, but it
was great while it lasted and gave me the financial foundation I needed
to keep going. That got me thinking. Are people who work
at what they love just somehow luckier than the rest of us? Or might
something else be happing here? During Tom's stint in the restaurant
business he also picked up five other corporate clients. I talked to
Stephen today and I'm not at liberty to share the latest news but
suffice it to say if things work out, it will be BIG. (I'll keep you
posted.) In each case, success came down not to
luck but to three simple things: Being willing to invest time into
honing our respective crafts, taking the initiative, and opening our
mouths to ask for what we wanted. What they're saying is "You're so lucky,"
but what they're thinking is, "Sure that happened for him, but it will
never happen for me." They're basically equating the odds of
their own success with those of hitting the lottery. And when you frame
success as all about luck, like the lottery, your chances of achieving
it are slim to none. Jean Cocteau wisely observed that "We
must believe in luck. For how else can we explain the success of those
we don't like?" Sam Goldwyn quipped, "The harder I work,
the luckier I get." Similarly, Dr. Armand Hammer remarked
that "When I work fourteen hours a day, seven days a week, I get
lucky." But perhaps Ralph Waldo Emerson said it
best when he wrote, "Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in
cause and effect." ~ ~ ~
About
the Author
Off
the beaten path career counselor Valerie Young abandoned her corporate
cubicle to become the Dreamer in Residence at ChangingCourse, offering
resources to help you discover your life mission and live it. An
expert on
the Imposter Syndrome, she's presented her How to Feel as Bright and
Capable
as Everyone Seems program to such diverse organizations as Daimler
Chrysler,
Bristol-Meyers Squibb, Harvard, and American Women in Radio and
Television. Her books include : Finding
Your True Calling: The Handbook for People Who Still Don't Know
What They Want to be When They Grow Up But Can't Wait to Find Out Find
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