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The Great
American Dream Challenge
By Marcia Wieder
Without dreams and vision,
companies and countries fail, and without our personal dreams, hopes
and aspirations, life can become meaningless.
Making Your Dreams Come True
Years ago, people came to America in pursuit of their dreams -- work
hard, stay focused and you can achieve the American Dream. For many who
have attained the basic American Dream -- basic freedom, own a home,
own a car, have a family -- finding a dream that takes us to the next
level of achievement can become a fragmented experience.
We want this. We want that. We want everything. And ever since
September 11th, we want to feel safer and more connected to family,
friends and community.
There's never been a more important time to set forth to achieve your
dreams. Without dreams and vision, companies and countries fail, and
without our personal dreams, hopes and aspirations, life can become
meaningless. For this reason, I propose "The Great Dream Challenge" and
I encourage you to take advantage of this support system to achieve
your dreams.
The Challenge
If we define a dream as something that you want, that has heart and
meaning for you and that you believe in, than what are your dreams?
Even if you tend to be overly realistic, you still have dreams or
things that you want for yourself and others.
Whether you have a dream or are in need of a new one, whether your
dream is for yourself, your community or the world, this is your chance
to act, to get help in making it happen and to support others in doing
the same.
The Challenge here is simple,
yet powerful. Pick a dream, at least one, small or large, personal or
professional that matters to you and make the commitment to achieve it
(or a portion of it) by a certain date.
Here's how The Dream Challenge works:
* Identify a dream that you are passionate about -- something that
matters to you.
* Put it in writing, tell others about it who will support you and is
committed to helping you overcome obstacles and achieve results.
* Join an organization or online community that will help you get
closer to your dreams through volunteering, helping you to build
skills, or providing support.
* Learn to make specific requests that will help you achieve your
dreams and then share those resources with others.
* Create a broad "Dream Circle" for support and accountability.
* Take serious action.
Many of us think, "I'll believe in my dream when I see that it's a sure
thing or at least when there's proof that it's likely to happen."
But the secret to living a
"dream come true" life is to believe in your dream simply because it
matters to you. In other words, looking for certainty out in the world
is not the place to begin. The place to look is in your own heart.
Choose to believe in your dream. Then take action to demonstrate -- to
yourself and others -- you really do believe.
My Dream Circle
During tough times or those days when there is no evidence that your
dream is possible, much less a good idea, it's essential to have a
place to turn for encouragement. It is important to have a support
group around you who are also working to achieve their dreams.
When we see dreams can come
true, we are willing to dream bigger dreams. That is why I encourage
you to create a Dream Circle of friends and accountability partners who
are committed to be there to spur you on.
The reality is we all have good and bad days. Personally, there are
days that I get distracted and forget my dreams. And then there are the
days when the doubters and dream killers -- internally and externally
-- become so overwhelming I want to give up.
That's when I turn to My Dream
Circle who help me remember and reclaim my belief in myself and in my
dreams.
This support system has assisted me through many hard times and the
great thing is that it is reciprocal. I can to do the same for them
daily. My Dream Circle provides support through ongoing encouragement,
coaching, inspiration and, most importantly, accountability for taking
risks.
We are finding new dreams,
partners, investors, volunteers, answers, creative ideas, mentors,
friends and fellow dreamers. But beyond networking, educating,
challenging and celebrating, we are a community with a shared
commitment that is profoundly impacting our lives.
Your Invitation to Dream
If we bring our intentions, offer support and resources to aid each
other, what could happen? During a time when many have lost hope, are
afraid of dreaming or taking risks, this is the essential time for us
to be bold.
What would you do if you
believed in yourself? What might you change if you believed in your
dreams? And how would you alter your life if you knew people would
stand by and help you to achieve your heart's desire?
Dreams are precious and essential and can change your family, community
and the world. Your dreams can make you a better and more passionate
human being. If no dream is too big or too small, the real question
becomes, simply: What matters to you and what are you willing to do
about it?
The Great Dream Challenge is to believe in yourself, create a Dream
Circle of support, take action and risk and to encourage others to
achieve their dreams along the way. I challenge you to do what you need
to do now to achieve your dreams and make them happen. The only thing
you have to lose by not doing taking the challenge is your dream.
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> Article provided courtesy
of the author -
Marcia Wieder, America's Dream
Coach®, is a best-selling author and speaker known for giving
inspiring and moving talks to AT&T, The Gap and American Express.
She appeared several times on Oprah and The Today Show. She also writes
for The San Francisco Chronicle.
To
receive Marcia's free e-book
and learn more about her "Create Your Future Now" workshops, visit her
site:

Dream
Coach
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