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The Real
Secret... of Unstoppable Achievers
By Dr Jill Ammon-Wexler
What marks the difference
between the person who achieves their goals and the person who doesn't?
How many times have you been told the difference is just having a
definite, well-defined goal.
Actually that is putting the cart before the horse, and it's not really
true. You can have a serious goal and still never even come close to
achieving it. In fact, that goal might even end up further eroding your
self confidence.
Why is this so? Because just having a goal does NOT magically bring
your desire into reach. Neither does creating a detailed goal plan.
The difference between those who actually achieve their goals and those
who do not is this: Non-achievers put the cart before the horse.
Achievers hook the horse up to the cart.
How Success is Really Attained
Almost every one of today’s
“success gurus” tell you to focus your energy on your desired end
result. On the surface it may seem wise to focus your energy on your
desired end result -- on your goal.
But in terms of how people actually achieve true success -- this is an
example of the classic case of putting the cart before the horse.
The truth is -- success is not attained when you achieve a desired
goal. Success is actually the process of becoming the person to whom
that desired goal belongs.
How to Become a Top Achiever
The real difference between
achievers and failures is the way they live their daily lives. Every
successful person became who they are because of how they live their
daily lives.
In short: Your daily lifestyle determines your success. You actually
become a success the millisecond you commit to live a daily lifestyle
focused on success. This puts the horse (your daily actions and
beliefs) before the cart (your end goal).
This applies to success in any field or endeavor –- whether business,
personal, or social. If you want to achieve a goal of being fit and
healthy, for example, you do so by adopting a daily lifestyle focused
on regular exercise and healthy eating habits.
If you want to achieve a goal of having your own million-plus business,
you do so by adopting a daily lifestyle focused on developing the
skills and attitudes of a multi-millionaire business person.
Some Real-Life Examples
Still need convincing? What do
you think the lifestyle of mega-successful people was before they
achieved their current levels of success?
Do you think Oprah spent five hours every evening watching soap operas?
Or maybe Anthony Robbins spent every evening drinking beer with his
buddies and watching sports videos? Maybe Tina Turner just sat around
eating potato chips and reading magazines? Or perhaps Gina Davis just
hung around the mall drinking coffee?
Are these silly questions? Of course! But in fact these examples are
exactly how a lot of unsuccessful people spend their time.
A Simple Action Plan
I realize this may sound
incredible, but in fact becoming a success IS simple. It may not be
easy, but it certainly isn't complicated. If you truly desire success,
it is created one day at a time.
Just go to work on a daily basis. What you do EACH DAY is what
determines if you will (or will not) achieve the success you desire.
This IS the major difference between the achievers and the would-be,
could be’s. Your daily actions truly determine your destiny.
Former President Ronald Reagan once said: "Status Quo is Latin for 'the
mess we are in.'" The status quo is actually your "comfort zone."
Reagan's tongue-in-cheek quote reminds us that just doing the same old
comfortable things actually creates a mess rather than new levels of
success.
Get your horse out in front of your cart. You can have the success you
desire IF you are willing to adopt a DAILY lifestyle that will result
in goal achievement.
Take bold action!
Begin to create a success-driven
lifestyle by committing to DO (not just read) Dr Jill’s remarkable
life-changing ecourse -– “Take Control.” This popular ecourse is being
used by thousands of success-seekers around the world for a simple
reason -- it works!
Get your copy at Quantum-Self
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article
provided courtesy of author -
Dr Jill Ammon-Wexler, Pioneer brain/mind researcher
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