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Theory of Positive Disintegration as a Model of Personality Development For Exceptional Individuals Overexcitability (OE) In
overexcitability, “responses to a variety of stimuli may markedly
exceed the value of an average response, they may last significantly
longer (although this is not a necessary attribute of
overexcitability), and they may occur with greater frequency.”
(Dabrowski, 1996, p.71). Another
characteristic of overexcitability is the ease with which psychological
experiences based on it are “translated” into symptoms of autonomous
nervous system, such as blushing, palpitations, sweating, headaches,
stomach butterflies and cramps in response to anxiety, diarrhea, easy
fatigue, increased skin sensitivity, etc. Overexcitability
also provokes inner conflicts as well as the means by which these
conflicts can be overcome. Second, overexcitability precipitates
psychoneurotic processes, and, third, conflicts and psychoneurotic
processes become the dominant factor in accelerated development.”
(Dabrowski, 1970, p. 38) He
distinguished two forms of OE – global and narrow; and five types:
psychomotor, sensual, imaginational, intellectual and emotional. The
last three types are crucial for the type of advanced personality
development that Dabrowski postulated as characteristic for many gifted
individuals, particularly for those whose achievement, while not
necessarily rewarding them with fame and eminence, was to attain the
highest level of emotional and moral growth. In its
‘pure’ form, it is a manifestation of the excess of energy; but it may
also result from the transfer of emotional tension to psychomotor forms
of expression such as those mentioned above. Cases of tics and
self-mutilation, for example, suggest psychomotor OE, which originates
in emotional tension. Dabrowski
was keenly interested in self-mutilation as a phenomenon suggestive of
higher than average sensitivity and DP. His Ph.D. dissertation on
“Psychological basis of self-mutilation,” first published in 1934 and
printed in English three years later, showed the co-existence of
self-mutilatory tendencies, creativity and strong developmental
strivings in a select group of creative individuals (Dabrowski, 1937). These
individuals are internally and unconsciously motivated to seek higher
than average stimulation, because when their internal tension becomes
too low, they experience it as a state of anxiety and inner discomfort.
A
person with psychomotor OE experiencing such a state of “nervous
deprivation” will seek appropriate – and sometimes not so appropriate –
stimulation to increase the inner tension and then to release it. As
Dabrowski writes, "The
real difficulties (for children with psychomotor overexcitability)
start with the beginning of formal education. The greatest numbers of
children who obtain bad grades for behavior come from this group. These
are children who fidget in their chairs, disrupt their peers' work,
play with pens and notebooks, have thousands of excuses to leave the
classroom, and show severe fluctuations in attention. After school, and
even during school, they start and lead fights and other physical
escapades.
"Boys, who excel in independence and exhibit tendencies to rebellion at school, are most frequently individuals with psychomotor OE. Their difficulties are particularly strong in adolescence, but they are also abundant in other periods. During adolescence, psychomotor OE takes on the form of truancy and wandering. Among children hanging from the back of a tram, among those who sell newspapers (on the streets), tramps or those who travel without a ticket, we meet primarily these types. In schoolwork and adult employment these individuals are characterized by unevenness or breaks in the work patterns. "They have periods of great intensity at work; in some, we find shorter or longer weakening of ability to work. These individuals are incapable of sustained effort, and are explosive at their workplace. Their work interests diverge in many different directions, and we often see frequent changes from one job or subject to another. In youth, we see tendencies to change schools, in young adults - jobs." (Dabrowski, 1964, p.76, trans. E. Mika)
Unfortunately,
this facet of Dabrowski’s work is less known in the U.S. and this has
resulted in a belief prevalent in the field of gifted education -- a
belief unsupported by facts -- that gifted children with psychomotor OE
tend to be “misdiagnosed” with ADHD. Most
either like to eat and/or are picky eaters, are interested in food
preparation, and like to smell their food (and often everything else). As
Dabrowski observed, they like to be the center of attention, approach
others without hesitation and start conversations easily; and are prone
to self-adoration, confabulations, and drama in their everyday life.
They usually exhibit strong aesthetic interests and are drawn to
artistic professions and pursuits. On the
negative side, people endowed with dominant sensual OE may lack the
ability for reflection, planning and systematic effort – they tend to
live “here and now,” dislike serious thought and intellectual analysis.
Their
interpersonal relationships are often characterized by excessive
sociability, an inability to tolerate being alone, a superficial
attitude toward loss and death, little interest in lives of others,
lack of responsibility, and a tendency to externalize problems and
blame others. “As
with the psychomotor form, (sensual OE) also may, but need not be, a
manifestation of a transfer of emotional tension to sensual forms of
expression of which the most common examples are overeating and
excessive sexual stimulation.” (Dabrowski, 1996, p.72) A
child with a particularly strong and unbalanced imaginational OE may
consider his fantasy world to be more real than his external reality.
As Dabrowski notes, these children have a difficult time in schools,
especially in areas that do not interest them – they may react with
sadness, lack of appetite, or depression to school requirements; and
are often considered odd, distractible and sickly by others. Their
first sexual attachment is often a failure, since they are not very
skilled in choosing appropriate partners. However, their love failures,
even though intense, do not leave major wounds since they are
compensated for in their imagination. Frequently,
persons with strong imaginational OE seek relationships with older and
mature partners who can provide for their necessary daily living needs
as well as offer protection and security. Children
(and adults) with this type of OE frequently show aesthetic interests
in art, poetry and music. They like to spend time alone or in very
small groups of select peers and relatives. They do not like games and
sports, but love to read and think. Sometimes
they lose the distinction between their dreams and reality.
Imaginational OE combined with emotional OE intensifies the tendency to
prospection and retrospection, as well as maladjustment to external
reality, often leading to positive disintegration. This
type of overexcitability is most frequently associated with exceptional
intellectual and academic abilities in children (Dabrowski, 1964; Mika,
2002). Its
presence usually does not create any special developmental/clinical
challenges and difficulties, apart from a possible developmental
imbalance skewed toward a theoretical (vs. practical) approach to life,
and possible disharmony between intellectual and other forms of
maturity. Intellectual OE is often associated with certain
socio-emotional immaturity (positive infantilism). “From
the developmental point of view, intensity of feelings and display of
emotions alone are not developmentally significant unless the
experiential aspect of relationship is present.” (Dabrowski, 1996,
p.72) This
distinction is of crucial importance, because only through learning
based of reciprocal relationships, a child can develop the capacity for
experiencing higher level emotions and multilevel dynamisms such as
guilt and shame, empathy, compassion, subject-object in oneself. Their
intense emotional reactions are frequently signs of a higher than
average need for security and safety. Other signs of emotional OE
include excessive inhibition and excitation, strong affective memory,
concern and preoccupations with death; “depressions, feelings of
loneliness, need for security, concern for others, exclusive
relationships, difficulties of adjustment in new environments
(insomnia, irritability and lack of appetite), etc.” (Dabrowski, 1996).
Teenagers
with the dominant emotional OE are often perceived as infantile,
naïve, lost, shy, non-competitive and immature. On the one hand,
they are prone to experiencing shame and guilt; on the other, they tend
to be overly open and trusting toward others – a combination, which,
unfortunately, predisposes them to being taken advantage of by
unscrupulous individuals. People
with dominant emotional OE develop relationships of friendship and love
usually with very few or only one person. Because such close and
exclusive relationships are the source of meaning in their lives, any
losses and betrayals have a lasting, and sometimes devastating, effect
on them. Their
sensitivity often increases as a result of difficult life experiences,
and may lead to extreme self-analysis, and tendencies to meditation and
isolation. As
Dabrowski observed, in some individuals with dominant emotional OE,
chronic anxiety related to shyness may become a dominating personality
trait that leads to excessive self-criticism, distrust and sensitivity
to rejection. Another
danger for high emotional OE person is a tendency toward
overidentification with others to the point of losing oneself in the
emotional world of another, to the detriment of one’s own well-being
and growth. (Dabrowski, 1964) However,
when endowed with equally strong imaginational and intellectual OE,
individuals with strong emotional OE can, and often do, sublimate and
transform the pain and suffering that result from their excessive
emotional sensitivity into creative and humanitarian efforts. In
introverts, on the other hand, emotional reactions are strong, but
“delayed” -- they take longer (days, weeks, or months) to develop, and
leave a permanent mark on the psyche. It is
important to note that the “delay” does not reflect a slowed-down
reaction, but the need to reflect on a given situation and absorb its
emotional content. In an
introvert endowed with emotional OE, emotional fatigue also occurs
easily, though it builds up slowly and lasts longer. In introverts with
strong emotional OE, we see positive maladjustment and a strong desire
to transcend here and now. They
experience longings for a better reality and frequently escape into
daydreaming, and show tendencies toward reflection and hierarchization
of their goals and values, which protect them from depression in face
of failure. Introverts with strong emotional OE usually display a
strong affective memory and preoccupation with death and immortality. Emotional,
imaginational and intellectual OE, apart from sensitizing and
increasing overall psychological receptivity to internal and external
stimuli, help one develop attitudes of prospection and retrospection,
bring unconscious contents to one’s awareness and allow for their
processing and integration, thus freeing great amounts of psychic
energy, necessary for creativity. The
presence of multiple forms and types of OE increases richness of one’s
inner experiences, and by its dynamic, unstable, and, in cases of
multiple strong OE, oppositional character, leads to frequent inner and
external conflicts which often give rise to dynamisms of positive
disintegration. Such
conflicts let us see different levels of our own experiences and
intensify our growth through increasing our self-awareness, which
becomes the basis of development through positive disintegration. And it
does not take a clinician to notice that many manifestations of OE are
recognized as part of symptomatology of various developmental disorders
(Asperger’s Syndrome, ADHD, sensory integration dysfunction). In his
1964 “Socio-educational Child Psychiatry” textbook, Dabrowski presented
guidelines for diagnostic differentiation between OE and psychological
disorders. Like
with everything else in life, when it comes to OE, it is not as much
what we have that matters most, but what we do with what we have. As
Dabrowski said, “Oversensitivity
(OE) without inner psychic transformation brings many unnecessary
conflicts with others – magnifies the differences, and lessens and
obscures the most important things.” (Dabrowski, 1972, pp.32-33)
This
tendency to attribute exceptional mental health to intellectually
gifted individuals dates back to Lewis Terman and his longitudinal
studies of 1,500 high IQ children (Shurkin, 1992). According
to his findings, “nervousness” was reported less frequently in the
gifted group than in the controls, while “timidity” and a tendency to
worry were equally frequent in both groups. In general, gifted boys
were only slightly more nervous than the non-gifted ones; while gifted
girls were less nervous than their non-gifted counterparts. Based
on these findings, Terman concluded that gifted children were indeed in
a very good psychological and physical health, certainly free from
excessive nervousness. But
his data revealed a positive correlation between exceptional
intellectual giftedness and different forms of mental and social
maladjustment – a finding corroborated by others (Hollingworth, Gross,
2003). Although
Terman denied higher than average nervousness of gifted children, he
observed that one of their difficulties as students had to do with
their excessive tendency to daydream and problems with adjusting to
demands of structured school settings - both of which are symptoms of
overexcitabilities, as defined by Dabrowski. Dabrowski
referenced Terman’s study in his work, pointing out that Terman’s
analysis of gifted children’s mental health differed from his own in
several respects (Dabrowski, 1970). Her
death affected 3-year-old Lewis so deeply that even in adulthood he
suffered from insomnia aggravated by fears of a similar fate. As a
grown-up, he developed a rigid and compulsive daily health regimen
designed to protect him from recurring bouts of the illness. An
obsessive attention to details and control needs characterized both his
work and personal life. Lonely, acutely aware of his uniqueness as a
child and young man, Lewis exhibited strong ambition and intellectual
strivings, augmented by his nervous temperament. Describing
his university seminars with Stanley Hall, Terman wrote this in his
biography: “I
always went home dazed and intoxicated, took a hot bath to quiet my
nerves, then lay awake for hours, rehearsing the drama and formulating
the clever things I should have said and did not.” (Shurkin, 1992, p.
96).
Many
clinicians working with gifted children have independently observed and
described these children’s unusual sensitivity and intensity, which
often set them apart from their less talented peers. The
study concluded that all gifted children and young people displayed
symptoms of increased psychoneurotic excitability, or lighter or more
serious psychoneurotic symptoms. Among
over 200 eminent individuals from different fields whose biographies he
studied, Dabrowski and his collaborators found that 97% of them showed
different forms of OE, particularly emotional, imaginational and
intellectual, neuroses and psychoneuroses, and also disturbances
bordering on psychoses (Dabrowski, 1979). He
quoted findings of other clinicians who observed that most children
with increased psychic excitability and with neurotic symptoms belonged
to the category of gifted and talented. (Dabrowski, 1964). In her
newest book, “Exuberance,” Jamison examines lives of eminent
individuals whose psychological make-up is shaped by hyperthymic
temperament or manic-depressive predispositions (Jamison, 2005) – both
characterized by behaviors typical of overexcitabilities. This
theme has been continued in J. Gartner’s recently published book, “The
Hypomanic Edge” (2005), where he examines lives of American successful
entrepreneurs and historical figures endowed with overexcitabilities
(though, obviously, Gartner does not use this term). Although
Gartner’s examples do not represent cases of advanced (or advancing)
personality development as understood by Dabrowski, they nevertheless
illustrate the correlation between certain forms of creativity and
increased psychic excitability. Inadvertently,
too, Gartner’s examples show negative influences that OE – not tempered
and not transformed by empathy and reflection -- can have on
personality development. Strong
and Ketter, for example, found that healthy (non-diagnosed) creative
individuals are closer in their personality types to manic-depressives
than to normal population as they exhibited higher than normal range of
mood changes and personality characteristics related to neuroticism. The
authors attributed these findings to the wider emotional range in the
creative individuals. The “wider emotional range” appears to be nothing
else but Dabrowski’s OE, described for the first time almost 70 years
ago. The
convergence of developmental psychopathology and psychology of
exceptionality seen in TPD is a source of a new, and very promising,
approach to treating human growth in its exceptional, as well as
“normal” and “disordered” aspects. One of
Dabrowski’s greatest contributions to our understanding of
exceptionality and human development in general is the appreciation of
the positive developmental value of various psychological difficulties,
including many conditions commonly considered as pathological only. For
one, we can no longer remain satisfied with labeling traits such as
overexcitability and developmental experience they engender as
“pathological,” since, as Dabrowski showed us, hidden behind the
stigmatizing labels are individuals full of “creative restlessness (and
the drive) to penetrate higher levels of reality”(Dabrowski, 1979,
p.187). Conversely,
heeding Dabrowski’s findings, we are able to become more aware of
dangers of one-sided development associated with extreme developmental
asynchrony, often encountered in gifted individuals. The
problems resulting from using intelligence in the service of most
basic, primitive drives – a tendency associated with psychopathy – are
especially evident in today’s world. TPD
offers not only a useful theoretical framework for understanding
individual differences and personality development, but also practical
solutions for affecting positive change, particularly (though not only)
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