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Perfectly Skinny

by Ephrat Livai

Study Confirms Perfectionism Is a Strong Trait of Anorexics

Nobody's perfect, but anorexics think they should be, according to a new study that confirms what many eating disorder experts have long suspected.

In the largest study of its kind, an international group of researchers, led by Dr. Katherine Halmi of the Eating Disorders Program of New York Presbyterian Hospital in Manhattan, examined the relationship between anorexia and perfectionism in 322 women from the United States and Europe.

She concluded the extent of perfectionism was directly associated with the severity of victims' anorexia nervosa.

Linking perfectionism and anorexia could help researchers establish if there is a genetic trait that predisposes a person to eating disorders, explains Dr. Suzanne Sunday, an assistant professor of psychiatry at New York Presbyterian and one of the study's co-authors.

"A lot of the evidence [linking perfectionism and anorexia] is anecdotal," she says. "Now we have hard data in a very large sample."  

In order to find a genetic susceptibility for anorexia, researchers sought patients with relatives who also suffered from eating disorders, and enlisted both in the study.

Participants responded to questions on three different standardized tests related to eating disorders, perfectionism and motivation to change.

The study was published in the November issue of the American Journal of Psychiatry.  

"Perfectionism is present commonly in the backgrounds of persons with anorexia nervosa, suggesting its role as a predisposing personality trait," study co-author Dr. Michael Strober, director of the Eating Disorders Program at UCLA School of Medicine, said in an e-mail to ABCNEWS.com.

"It is suspected that this personality trait may be a marker of genetic risk factors."

Perfectionism may be a flag for susceptibility to anorexia, but whether anorexia is genetic or environmental, or a mixture of both, remains an open question. In a follow-up study, the scientists will look for possible correlations between the patients' behavior and their genetics.

    Never Skinny Enough

An emotional disorder that manifests itself in the body, anorexia nervosa affects about 8 million Americans, 7 million of whom are women.

It is characterized by starvation, compulsive exercising and often by an absence of menstrual cycles. Patients may become preoccupied by food and even engage in food rituals such as cutting up their servings in tiny pieces.

Anorexics have a distorted perception of their body and continue to lose weight or obsess over keeping it down long after they have dropped below acceptable levels for their height and age.

Essentially, anorexics can never be skinny enough.

"I see anorexia as one of many manifestations of having a perfectionistic personality," says Dr. Steven Hendlin, a clinical
psychologist in Irvine, Calif., and author of
When Good Enough Is Never Enough.

Hendlin says a perfectionist is someone who habitually thinks that anything short of perfection in his or her performance is
unacceptable. In the case of anorexics, that means living up to unreasonable standards of beauty.

To distinguish between a healthy desire to excel and perfectionism,
Hendlin uses the example of a runner who wins a track meet but does not beat his own personal record.

The perfectionist, he says, is motivated by fear and focuses on his failure, while the achiever revels in the moment of victory and uses the good feeling to fuel further successes. 

Sara Rosin knows about the relationship between perfectionism and
weight loss firsthand. The 22-year-old native of Frankemuth, Mich.,
suffered from anorexia in high school, and then in college developed
bulimia — an eating disorder characterized by binge eating, frequently followed by purging through vomiting, abuse of laxatives and/or diuretics, or fasting.

"I've always been a typical, type-A personality," Rosin says, meaning she is high-strung.

In an essay Rosin wrote for the National Association of Anorexia
Nervosa and Associated Disorders newsletter, she describes the struggle overachieving anorexics experience.

"Somehow when females heard the message `You can be anything you want to be,' they inferred that to mean `You should be everything you possibly can be! Oh — and don't forget to be the best at it all!'"

A cross-country runner in school, Rosin says her perfectionism drove
her to always push herself harder. "I felt like if I could do three miles,
good. If I could do five miles, better." Conversely, when it came to food, the less she consumed, the better.

When her weight fell to 76 pounds, Rosin finally realized her all-consuming drive could kill her.

Untreated, anorexia can be fatal. The most common cause of death in a longtime anorexic is low serum potassium, which can cause an irregular heartbeat and eventual heart failure.

     Nature vs. Nurture

Hendlin says anorexics learn as children that they will not be loved unless they are perfect. He is convinced perfectionism is due to nurture, not nature.

"[Perfectionism] is not a trait," he says. "It's learned by what you do as a kid and it always has to do with authority figures."

But many experts believe life experience is only one of the factors that influence whether a person will have an eating disorder. Dr. Walter Kaye, a professor of psychology at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center and another of the study's co-authors, says, "A lot of people diet in this society, but not everyone ends up with an eating disorder."  

Kaye and his fellow researchers now suspect anorexia may be linked to the family of genes associated with serotonin, a neurotransmitter
connected to mood. By analyzing study participants' DNA, they hope to find patterns that are similar in anorexic family members but different from those of people without eating disorders.

Finding a genetic marker for anorexia could help to better target
treatment for the disorder — possibly with drugs. Treatment for anorexia currently consists of hospitalizing patients to get their weight back up, followed by therapy, which can continue for years.

Today, after extensive therapy, Rosin says she still has to check herself for negative thought patterns and unrealistic expectations. She is wary of the messages she hears from herself and others about women, weight and perfection.

"I basically realized I am not perfect," Rosin says. "Life's not perfect.
I don't want to be perfect. I realized I am happy with what I have."

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N E W Y O R K, Nov. 17 
Copyright ©2000 ABC News Internet Ventures.


books

Miriam Adderholdt-Elliott  Perfectionism : What's Bad About Being Too Good   [publisher:] "What happens when nothing is good enough? When an "A" is onlhy seen as "not an A+"? When an eighth inning scoring run by the opposing team turns a remarkable seven innings into "just another loss." When your parents say they want the best for you but mean they ONLY want the best FROM you? When your are your own worst critic—and you're only 15? Most likely, you are a perfectionist teen who cannot see your excellent work and achievements for what they are.."

Martin M. Antony    When Perfect Isn't Good Enough : Strategies for Coping With Perfectionism   "..explores the nature of perfectionism and offers a step-by-step program of cognitive-behavioral strategies for overcoming it." [Customer Review:] "... strikes an excellent balance between an overly technical professional text and the all-too-common self-help book that's too high on fluff and too low on content. This book... is packed with useful information (and good exercises) on how to break free from patterns of perfectionistic thinking and behavior; and it contains what I thought were interesting and insightful discussions on how perfectionism ties together with depression, anger, social anxiety, worry, and other "not so pleasant" dispositions that many of us realize to some degree or other."

Monica Basco  Never Good Enough : How to Use Perfectionism to Your Advantage Without Ruining Your Life
[from Oprah.com:] "A practical, scientifically proven step-by-step program for overcoming unreasonably high expectations that can often be the hidden cause of depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, stifled creativity, and broken relationships."

David Burns, MD  Feeling Good : The New Mood Therapy

Cynthia Curnan  The Care and Feeding of Perfectionists
[amazon.com:] Jim McGrath, Playwright, Television Writer, AIR AMERICA " I was stuck on a play for ten years. It was the worst case of writer's block I'd ever known. Cynthia's book helped me build a bridge over the block. Within two days, I had turned a problem play into my most meaningful and successful work, ever. I have since used it as a reference manual in the writing courses I teach. Invaluable resource!" //  [actress/director Linda Gray, in LA Times:] "...offers readers the tools to balance themselves on the seesaw of life. She shows how to look at extremes and blend them, through inner guidance, into the most delicious swirl ice cream."

Daniel Goleman  Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ for Character, Health and Lifelong Achievement

Steven Hendlin, PhD.  When Good Enough Is Never Enough

Enid Howarth  The Joy of Imperfection   [Midwest Book Review:] "..a guide to being ordinary, thereby enticing readers toward self-acceptance rather than obsessive self-improvement. ... based on the premise that it is our imperfections that enable us to be different, to explore new frontiers, to be flexible, imaginative, and creative, to have fun, to laugh, and to be ourselves."

Ann W. Smith  Overcoming Perfectionism : The Key to Balanced Recovery

Alexandra Stoddard  The Art of the Possible : The Path from Perfectionism to Balance and Freedom   [Midwest Book Review:] "Stoddard tackles the subject of demanding self-perfection, explaining how real joy and a stress-free live can only be obtained when individuals stop demanding perfection from themselves and others. Many case history examples and first-person insights are shared in Stoddard's exploration of the path to freedom."

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