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Without sensitivity what would life be like?

Sensitivity nurtures us, gives life color, expressiveness, charm - provides a basis for terror. Sensitivity, feeling and thinking feed each other, are part of each other.
 Thinking and  feeling are ways sensitivity unfolds or grows... without the sensory sea we take for granted, feeling and thought would dry up and die.

From article: Sensitivity - by Michael Eigen, PhD - author of book The Sensitive Self

Photo from book Women - by Annie Leibovitz, Susan Sontag.
 

Are You Highly Sensitive?  - by Jenna Avery, CLC, Life Coach for Sensitive Souls
Do you often feel overwhelmed by your environment or the people around you? Has anyone ever called you shy – or worse: “too sensitive”? Do you care deeply about EVERYTHING? You may be a highly sensitive soul – a person of deep empathy and high intensity, with powerful intuition, awareness, and intelligence. Being highly sensitive, you have a uniquely perceptive sensory system. You are therefore more sensitive to emotions, energy, environmental conditions such as lighting or sound, other people, excitement, and stress.

Being Sensitive -- in an Insensitive World  by Thomas Eldridge  "All your life you thought something was wrong with you. You were uncomfortable around noise. No one understood your need to be alone. You seem to know things without being told. The good news is that you are not dysfunctional. You are a highly sensitive person (HSP). You are not the only one; you share this trait with at least 20% of the population who are referred to as shy or touchy."

Creative people more open to stimuli from environment - University of Toronto news release
Researchers showed that creative individuals are much more likely to have low levels of latent inhibition, remaining in contact with information constantly streaming in from the environment. “Low levels of latent inhibition and exceptional flexibility in thought might predispose to mental illness under some conditions and to creative accomplishment under others."

Every Blessing and Curse is a Choice. Choose the Blessing! - By Jenna Forrest
I would bet that a lot of us were fully prepared for our own funerals by about age seven, figuring that we were soon going to die from sensory overload. From the very beginning, the world was stirring me like a whisk. Life in general felt upside down, inside out and backwards. From my three-foot tall childhood viewpoint, my city looked littered; the music in our house was too loud; chemical cleaners and detergents smelled too strong; and cars sped too fast. Sensing the bad mood of every stranger walking down the street didn’t help.

Gifted and Stressed - by Douglas Eby

Growing Up Gifted Is Not Easy - by Elaine Aron, PhD
We have to find life meaningful, so that even in the lowest mood, that meaning holds us like a safety net. That’s the ultimate protection parents can provide an HSC [Highly Sensitive Child], especially a gifted one. And if all of the meaning of life is the expression of one’s talents, no matter how great those talents, that’s missing a lot of potential safety net.

The Highly Sensitive Child (and Adults, Too): Is Sensitivity the Same as Being Gifted? - by Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D.

Highly Sensitive Kids Need Sensitive Parents by Paula Prober, M.S., M.Ed.
"These children are often bright, creative, and intuitive. They see, hear, and feel more than other children so they may be overwhelmed by certain environments and activities. If you live with a sensitive child, you may feel frustrated, guilty, angry, and confused. The following suggestions are designed to help you increase your understanding of your child and to build your child's self-esteem."

Highly Sensitive People - Traits and Characteristics - by Rose Smith
One in every twenty people is considered to be a highly sensitive person (HSP).  We're the thinkers, the cautious ones, the conservative people... Every society needs highly sensitive people, just as we need the warriors, the leaders who are ready to take the risks.

Living Your Calling: Taking the First Steps - by Jenna Avery, CLC, Life Coach for Sensitive Souls
As a sensitive soul, working in a “regular” job is fraught with challenges. Mainstream work culture and ethics exacerbate what is already seriously misaligned for sensitive souls. As sensitives, we bring so much to the working world – creativity, caring, warmth, intuition, originality, conscientiousness, attention to detail, thoughtfulness, thoroughness, spirituality, perceptiveness, and supportiveness, to name just a few. These qualities make us highly valuable employees.

The Low Down on Highly Sensitive People - by Wendy Underhill
 These people are not necessarily contemplative, compassionate or introverted, although there does tend to be a correlation with these traits. And their status isn’t a disability. It’s simply an inborn heightened sensitivity to stimulation–sensory, social, or informational.

Overwhelmed by the World? - By Maggie Oman Shannon
When research psychologist and psychotherapist Elaine Aron publishedThe Highly Sensitive Person, many people felt a jolt of recognition. Highly sensitive people - 20 percent of the population - experience the world differently. When they learn how to deal with it, they can turn what is often felt as a curse into a gift.

Parenting Emotionally Intense Gifted Children - by Lesley Sword
Giftedness has an emotional as well as intellectual component. Intellectual complexity goes hand in hand with emotional depth. So gifted children not only think differently from other children they also feel differently. Emotional intensity in gifted people is not a matter of feeling more than other people, it is a different way of experiencing the world.

Protect Yourself from Energy Vampires - by Judith Orloff, MD
Energy vampires are people who suck our energy dry. Everyone can benefit from skills on how to cope with them. You can especially benefit if you are an "intuitive empath" who absorbs the pain and negativity of others into your body, and become exhausted by it.

Reflections on Research: HSPs Have Stronger Emotional Reactions (I know, "Big news.") - by Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D.

Sensitivity: Introduction - by Michael Eigen, PhD
Without sensitivity what would life be like? Sensitivity nurtures us, gives life color, expressiveness, charm - provides a basis for terror. Sensitivity, feeling and thinking feed each other, are part of each other. Thinking and  feeling are ways sensitivity unfolds or grows. We speak of emotional sensitivity, reflective sensitivity, not just the raw life of sensations. But without the sensory sea we take for granted, feeling and thought would dry up and die.

So Sensitive?! Why Sensitivity Is A Gift - By Carolyn Coleridge, MSW, Spiritual Intuitive Counselor and Healer "You are too sensitive. Don’t be so sensitive! Many people on the spiritual path have heard this criticism over and over again. It is usually meant as a put-down to someone who has a high sense of intuition and a sixth sense ‘knowing’. This comment is usually stated with disdain and contempt as a major flaw in an individual’s personality. In fact many lightworkers have heard these words, especially as children and it has caused them to close down this gift."

The Top Ten Gifts of Being an Inner-Directed Individual - By Sarah Dolliver

What Everyone Needs to Know About Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) - By Sarah Dolliver
This world is blessed with a distinct type of individual: those who are highly sensitive. Often, misunderstood and maligned for being "overly sensitive," these folk are quiet, peace-loving beings who simply want an easier sensory experience from life. Sound familiar? Perhaps you know an HSP or are one yourself.

What Everyone Needs to Know About Introverts  - By Sarah Dolliver

What is an Empowered HSP? - by Jacquelyn Strickland
Over the years of working with HSPs, I've synthesized what I think of when describing an empowered vs. an unempowered HSP. If you find yourself in the latter category, don't worry. Just know there is a way to heal and gain insight to use your sensitivity as the gift. Thousands of HSPs are doing just that.

What's So Great About Being Highly Sensitive, Anyway? - by Jenna Avery
If you’re highly sensitive, you may see your sensitivity as a limitation. But what I’ve seen is that when you work with your sensitivity instead of against it, your life flows easily, peacefully, and naturally. My sensitivity is both a challenge and a gift, I believe.

Work that Works for Sensitive Souls: Six Steps to Transforming Your Career  - by Jenna Avery
Many Highly Sensitive Souls believe that our sensitivity makes us weak, weird, or different. Actually, being sensitive makes us highly aware, caring, and perceptive. In the workplace, the gift of sensitivity may feel like a handicap. As Sensitive Souls, we care passionately about our work and it tremendously impacts our well-being. I am a fervent champion of work where we can fully contribute and feel deeply satisfied by our efforts. So how is this possible? 

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**Products: 
Noise-reducing headphones

A study reported in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology reveals that creative people are poor at shutting out irrelevant information. At the extreme level, this is linked with mental illness, but at a milder level it could be possible that creative people are creative exactly because they can see how information that is seemingly irrelevant may actually relate to a problem. Nonetheless, this tendency can make it hard to concentrate and therefore could work against you.

ACTION: My favorite means for coping with this is a set of noise-reducing headphones. I originally bought these to use on airplanes, to reduce the drone of the engines and other unwanted noise. You can plug them, instead of the cheap headsets the airlines provide, into the airplane's entertainment system, and you'll get much better sound.

But you can also wear them (unplugged) anytime and anywhere that you want to reduce distracting noise. If you feel self-conscious, just tuck the plug into your pocket and people will assume you've got a mini-iPod in there.

Jurgen Wolff - in his creativity newsletter, August/September 2005 - see his site Brainstorm


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Native Remedies

Pure Calm - combines the soothing properties of Melissa Officinalis, Lavender and Passiflora Incarnata for relief from anxiety, stress, irritability and nervous tension.



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Freeze-Framer - from the Institute of HeartMath

The Freeze-Framer® is an interactive software program that displays your heart rhythms and shows you how stress may be affecting you. 

Much more than a heart monitor this revolutionary technology will help you transform stress and anxiety into free energy for personal and professional effectiveness.

Quickly and easily install the software, plug in the sensor and start to have fun with this new and unique interactive ability to see and control your body's most powerful system--the heart.

The Freeze-Framer has been designed to prevent, manage and reverse the effects of stress.


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Using our fingertip pulse sensor that plugs into the serial port of your computer you can watch in real time how thoughts and emotions affect your heart and autonomic nervous system. 

You will learn how to intentionally shift to a positive emotional state and will be able to see the changes in your heart rhythms immediately on your computer screen. 

These shifts in your heart rhythms create a favorable cascade of neural, hormonal and biochemical events that benefit the entire body and mind. 

Blood pressure drops. Stress hormones plummet. The immune system pumps up. Anti-aging hormones increase. You gain clarity, calmness and control. The effects are both immediate and long lasting.

from HeartMath info page

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Relieve Stress by Dr. Arnd Stein 
and other Mind and Body programs from

Nightingale-Conant

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***sites: 

..Also see list on the  Highly Sensitive site  

Highly Sensitive People
"Insights into how to successfully navigate the unique situations and challenges that arise for people with the trait of high sensitivity and the people in their lives."
[Site of Jim Hallowes.]

The Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) - site of Elaine Aron, PhD

Highly Sensitive Persons  - site of Thomas Eldridge - "For Sensitive, Intuitive, Creative and Spiritual Persons"

Highly Sensitive Souls
"Personal Life Coach for Sensitive Souls & Highly Sensitive Persons, Jenna Avery, CLC.
"I have found that coaching is an invaluable tool for Highly Sensitive Souls. Coaching focuses on helping us claim the truth of who we are, steep in self-acceptance and acknowledgement, nurture our own well-being, and celebrate the expression of our gifts and true selves in the world. When we do this, I believe that anything becomes possible."

hspbook   [Yahoo group]
"This international email discussion list is for readers of the book, The Highly Sensitive Person, and/or The Highly Sensitive Person In Love, and/or The Highly Sensitive Child by Elaine Aron and/or Making Work Work For The Highly Sensitive Person by Barrie Jaeger..."

HSP Connections - The Information Directory for the Highly Sensitive Person

hspsurvival.com  - site for book The Highly Sensitive Person's Survival Guide -by Ted Zeff; also has additional resources

HSP Notes - "..an information resource for HSPs, whether you've just discovered that "Hey! This is ME!" or have been exploring the meaning of "being sensitive" for a long time."

HSP Work - site for Barrie S. Jaeger, PhD - author of Making Work Work for the Highly Sensitive Person

Inner Reflections: Musings on being an Introvert, a Highly Sensitive Person, and a Gifted Adult

InnerVantage - site of Sarah Dolliver - “Where your inner nature becomes your outward advantage... the online, connected community for individuals who focus inward to restore. Introverted? Highly sensitive to sensory stimuli? Living with ADD? These and other life situations benefit from insight that is gained from time by yourself.”

Jessica Thayer: Consultant to the Highly Sensitive Person

LifeWorks - Jacquelyn Strickland, Licensed Professional Counselor
Highly Sensitive People
: "According to Elaine Aron, author of The Highly Sensitive Person, about 20% of the population are thought to have a more finely tuned central nervous system, which may cause them to be more susceptible to environmental stimuli such as noise, fragrance, certain foods, chaos, beauty, and/or pain. The trait can be a blessing and a challenge, depending upon how we choose to view it." Jacquelyn Strickland

Sensitive Professionals Network - "provides a place where sensitive professionals can promote their services, and creates a place for sensitive people everywhere to find suitable and understanding professionals in a range of fields." Site administered by Jenna Avery.

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****books
 

Elaine Aron.  The Highly Sensitive Person 

Elaine Aron. The Highly Sensitive Person's Workbook

Elaine Aron. The Highly Sensitive Person in Love

Elaine Aron. The Highly Sensitive Child

Marcy Calhoun. Are You Really Too Sensitive? : How to Understand and Develop Your Sensitivity

Michael Eigen. The Sensitive Self

Sharon Heller, PhD.  Too Loud, Too Bright, Too Fast, Too Tight

Barrie S. Jaeger, PhD. Making Work Work for the Highly Sensitive Person 

Debra Mandel, Ph.D. Healing the Sensitive Heart : How to Stop Getting Hurt, Build Your Inner Strength, and Find the Love You Deserve
Childhood wounds, whether from parents, siblings, teachers or any other source, leave us vulnerable to developing a "sensitive heart." When left unhealed, these wounds wreak havoc in our adult lives, especially in our intimate relationships. People with "sensitive hearts" grow to doubt themselves, and actually wonder whether they deserve a healthy, balanced relationship. In time, they begin to attract dead-end relationships. With each unsuccessful romance, the "sensitive-hearted" person moves farther and farther from a positive, loving, long-term partnership. /  quotes from author site sensitiveheart.com

Kyra Mesich. The Sensitive Person's Survival Guide: An Alternative Health Answer
to Emotional Sensitivity & Depression 

Ted Zeff, Ph.D., Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D. The Highly Sensitive Person's Survival Guide
Highly sensitive people (HSPs), who make up some 20 percent of the population, are individuals who both enjoy and suffer from a finely tuned neurological system. This condition can be a gift, but, until HSPs master their sensitive nervous systems, they operate in a constant state of overstimulation. Conditions that most of us ignore completely overwhelm the HSP: bright light, loud sounds, and strong smells. More importantly, HSPs are also very sensitive to their internal worlds. They tend to be deeply affected by pain, both emotional and physical. The emotional demands of relationships and inevitable consequences of change often leave them reeling. If you're a HSP, the most important thing you must learn is how to manage your increased volume of sensory experience, both physical and emotional stimulation. This accessible, practical guide contains strategies that help you master this critical skill. [amazon.com]
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