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think that in a way we're not showing girls something that they aren't
capable of, right now. The angels aren't out there going, "By the way,
this is who you should be and this is where women are going to end up."
I think we're holding up a mirror to women right now and saying that this is who you are, what you're capable of, and what you are doing at the present time. Women are capable of doing so many things these days, physically, emotionally, within relationships and career. ... I feel really proud about where women are right now. Cameron Diaz - about "Charlie's Angels: Full Throttle" .. [Dark Horizons.com interview 6/23/03] |
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Over the next decade, feminist quarterly BUST magazine found its niche with young women who were disillusioned not only with the stereotypes found in typical "women's magazines" but also with a previous generation's feminist journals. "An over-abundance of positive role models can be just as stifling as a bevy of anorexic supermodels," says [co-publisher] Debbie Stoller. ...
[PRNewswire, May 22 2003]
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Reese
Witherspoon has
found the ideal way to make sure her Barbie-loving daughter Ava has
politically
correct dolls - she's created her own. The actress has linked up with
toy-makers
Mattel to create a new Barbie modeled on her Legally Blonde character
Elle
Woods.
The idea came to her when she was looking for politically correct Barbie dolls for her daughter. Reese says, "She loves Barbies and at first I thought, 'Is she presenting the right image to women' - and then I found President Of The United States Barbie and I got so inspired... And now, Elle Woods is going to be a Barbie and all my proceeds are going to charity."...[imdb.com/PeopleNews 5/5/03] |
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Everyone has a responsibility to be a role model.
It's a responsibility we want.Brandi Chastain - referring to the U.S. women's soccer team .. [Moxie mag., Millennium 2000]
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Role model is such a weird term. There are people who inspire me, but ultimately you have to model yourself after yourself.
Jena Malone
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while women and girls can derive strength and inspiration from stories
of heroic men, the dearth of similar stories about women leaves many of
us believing that should we strive for adventure and self-awareness, we
have no alternative but to model ourselves after - or be rescued by -
men.
This extant ethos affects our lives today in very harmful ways. From the religious myths of the ancient world to the secular myths of the modern world, the stereotype of the heroine reinforces the restrictive attitudes toward women in patriarchal cultures. The power of this myth makes it extremely difficult for women to be seen as strong, resourceful, courageous, and real, the ingredients of true heroic stature. Further, it has led too many women to repress or deny any desire they might feel for heroic adventure, either because they are taught to fear reprisal or because they are kept ignorant of their powerful potential. |
 .. .. ..The Sound of a Silver Horn: Reclaiming the Heroism in Contemporary Women's Lives - by Kathleen Noble, Ph.D. ..interview: Kathleeen Noble |
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Drew Barrymore
says, "Young girls come up to me all the time to ask for advice. I
think
they see me as a survivor. They figure if I can be happy after all I've
gone through, there's hope for everyone."
Before she was 18, Barrymore had grappled with alcoholism, drug addiction and numerous failed relationships. On her Saturday Night Live appearance this year she sang a hilarious tell-all song detailing her public and private sins. "I don't have any no-comment areas in my life. It's all been documented," she says. "I jumped at the chance to make fun of myself, but I told the writers not to make it so mean that I'd go home depressed. It's not just fun but healthy to laugh at yourself and I've been laughing up a storm for a couple of years now." [Calgary Sun, April 4, 1999] |
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 .. .. Particularly the black community. So many black people would approach me and say, "My daughter aspires to be like you. Stay positive." So I'd try to stay that way. I thought that if I did nudity, I'd let them down and send the wrong message to those girls. But then I realized it's not my job to raise those girls. Halle Berry... [LA Times, January 2, 2002] |
To
be honest with you, I don't think that one moment in time [being the
first
African-American actress to receive Best Actress Oscar - for Monster's
Ball] changed an entire industry that has been racist from its
conception.
We live in a world that is racist and racism exists everywhere, so the Oscar didn't really change anything. However, what it did do, was it inspired people. I know that to be true because in the last seven months, people have come up to me and written me countless letters saying stuff like: Because you've won, I can now continue to dream; I lost hope but it's renewed now. So I think those inspired people will eventually force the change, because those same people before that night may have decided to drop out... while now they know it's possible - and not just Black actresses, but Spanish and Asian actors as well. Halle
Berry.....[darkhorizons.com
Nov 13, 2002] > more quotes in article: Being A Role Model |
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can only live your life and set an example. I'm just really lucky I get
to work on the show ['Buffy..'], play Tara and be a role model.
When
you go into business and do something in this world, you want to make
an
impact, and I feel with this character I'm really making an
impact.
Of course, you're scared, because you have to live your life in a better way. You can't run around at all hours and be a little actor sh*t. I feel that I have to live a better life and watch what I do, so that when young girls see us on TV, they see a character, and also the real person behind. Amber Benson - from"Hitting all the right notes," Dreamwatch Magazine, November 2001 - posted on AmberBenson.net |
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Psychologist Gloria Wright, Ph.D. has written, "We tend to think of celebrities or people we don't know well as role models and people we know as mentors. "But I don't think it's as simple as that. My definition of a positive mentor is someone whose influence you integrate to help you improve or accomplish goals, while leaving your true self intact."
That idea is echoed in a comment by Prof. Kathleen Noble: "A woman to live heroically must belong to herself alone; she must be the center of her own life to pursue a wholeness or integrity that is fluid, inclusive and interconnected... a female hero must insist upon herself, something that most women are neither taught nor encouraged to do."
>> from article: Being A Role Model
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..from article:...Being A Role Model - by Douglas Eby. |
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Baroness Bertha Sophie
Felicita von Suttner,
accorded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1905 from site: Heroines
of Peace - The Nine Nobel Women |
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