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| ....articles: Are You Addicted To Your Activities? -
by
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Counseling
Issues with Recognized and Unrecognized Gifted Adults by
Mary Rocamora Dealing
with the Stereotype of Underachievement
- by James Delisle, Ph.D. Perseverance is about as important to achievement as gasoline is to driving a car. ... The opposite of perseverance is procrastination. Perseverance means you never quit. Procrastination usually means you never get started, although the inability to finish something is also a form of procrastination. I'm going to tell you how to overcome procrastination... how to turn procrastination into perseverance, and if you do what I suggest, the process will be virtually painless. Entitled
to Be Exceptional - by
Douglas
Eby Feeling
like an impostor by Douglas Eby The
Gifted Underachiever - by Josh Shaine The Inner Critic by Sharon Good Internal barriers, personal issues, and decisions faced by gifted and talented females - by Sally M. Reis, Ph.D. Motivational Paralysis - by Anna Caveney Negative self-talk - by Douglas Eby The
Pain and (half) Pleasures of Rejection - Getting past negative
opinions
- by Todd Pitock
Self-Defeating Behavior may be Ruining Your Chances of Success at Home and on the Job - by Loraine O"Connell Self-Knowledge,
Self-Esteem and the Gifted Adult by Stephanie S. Tolan Self-Sabotage: The Opposite of Self-Care
- By
Linda Dessau Simple
and Easy Procrastination Buster - by Deanne
Repich Stop This Secret Self-Sabotage - by Guy
Finley Striving for achievement - an
interview
with Kenneth Christian, Ph.D. - by
Douglas Eby Summary
of Current Research Findings about Underachievement - by Sally M.
Reis Supporting
creative achievement - an
interview
with therapist Lynne Azpeitia - Perhaps the most upsetting part of being an underachiever with a lot of potential is the accusation, first from your parents and then from yourself, that you are somehow doing "it" intentionally. /// It is true that these behaviors, some internally driven and some learned, will continue to be a part of your life. Long range deadlines will always present more of a challenge than you might like them to. /// There are ways to cope with the differences that make some types of tasks difficult. There are jobs in which the way you work is far more valuable than traditional academic strategies would be. The Underachievement of Gifted Students: What Do We Know and Where Do We Go? - by Sally M. Reis & D. Betsy McCoach The process of defining underachievement, identifying underachieving gifted students, and explaining the reasons... continues to stir controversy among practitioners, researchers, and clinicians. Despite this interest, the underachievement of gifted students remains an enigma. This article reviews and analyzes three decades of research... When
Having It All Isn't Everything by Patricia Kitchen Women
of Talent - Power and Leadership - by Douglas Eby |
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....sites :
Maximum Potential Project
site of Kenneth W. Christian, PhD - author of Your Own Worst Enemy: Breaking the Habit of Adult UnderachievementSecrets You Keep From Yourself
a website designed to promote greater self awareness and help you overcome self-undermining habits
site of Dan Neuharth, PhD -- author of book Secrets You Keep from Yourself : How to Stop Sabotaging Your Happiness
....books:
Steven Berglas, PhD, Roy F. Baumeister, PhD. Your Own Worst Enemy: Understanding the Paradox of Self-Defeating Behavior
While many of us may practice self-defeating behavior, most of us -- contrary to conventional wisdom -- don't really harbor a secret death wish, aver psychotherapist Berglas (The Success Syndrome : Hitting Bottom When You Reach the Top) and research psychologist Baumeister (Meanings of Life). Observing that self-defeating acts can take myriad and devious forms, they compile numerous examples of how people create their own obstacles. Berglas and Baumeister buttress their list of self-sabotaging mechanisms with references to such memorable self-defeaters as Greta Garbo and Gary Hart.Pamela Brill, Ed.D. The Winner's WayLucia Capacchione and Peggy Van Pelt. Putting Your Talent to Work
Kenneth W. Christian, PhD. Your Own Worst Enemy: Breaking the Habit of Adult Underachievement
"Self Limiting High Potential Persons.. etch enduring pathways over time by repeating their
characteristic self-defeating methods... this tendency can evolve into a general self-limiting style...."Don Hutcheson, Bob McDonald, Ph.D. Don't Waste Your Talent : The 8 Critical Steps to Discovering What You Do Best
Each of us is born with talents to be remarkable at something. The secret is identifying those talents and then using them. So, what makes a person successful? Hutcheson and McDonald have posed this question to thousands of people throughout their careers. Everyone's story is different. But one thing is the same: successful people do what they do best every day. They are guided by a clear personal vision - an accurate and precise picture of the work that expresses them best. For the authors, success means satisfaction, productivity, self-expression, connectedness and meaning.Mary-Elaine Jacobsen. The Gifted Adult: A Revolutionary Guide for Liberating Everyday Genius
Lisa Jimenez. Conquer Fear : A Unique Blend of Psychology and Theology to Change Your Beliefs -- And Thus Your Results
"Fear of rejection. Fear of making decisions. Fear of change. Fear of failure. And, of course, the big one - fear of success! It is this fear (and all of its cousins, like worry, anxiety, and self-doubt) that paralyzes you and keeps you from succeeding. ... These negative belief barriers are powerful motivators that will actually cause you to repel success.... The problem isn't just your fear. No, your fear represents a powerful, self-limiting belief! Until your beliefs are identified and replaced with empowering beliefs, no amount of positive thinking will help you create and attain success."Diane Montgomery. Able Underachievers
Alan E. Nelson, John C. Maxwell. My Own Worst Enemy: Overcoming Nineteen Ways We Defeat Ourselves
Alan Nelson, M.A., Ed.D., is founding and senior pastor of Scottsdale Family Church in Arizona. ...
Some people can't seem to get ahead in life even when they try to improve relationships or situations. Alan Nelson suggests that their setbacks result from attitudes that affect their behaviors, whether they are aware of it or not. My Own Worst Enemy describes nineteen ways people sabotage their lives. Each chapter provides readers with a definition and the dangers of a "behavitude"-behaviors that stem from attitudes - such as guilt, living in the past, and self-sufficiency. Nelson addresses the "why" behind such behavior and offers solutions readers can use to begin changing their lives.Dan Neuharth, PhD. Secrets You Keep from Yourself : How to Stop Sabotaging Your Happiness
Gene F. Ostrom, PhD. Why Smart People Do Stupid Things
Dan Robey. The Power of Positive Habits
"If greater success, improved self-esteem and happiness are your life destinations, The Power of Positive Habits can take you there! This is a simple but powerful program that can transform your life."
Jack Canfield - #1 NY Times Best-selling author, “Chicken Soup for the Soul”"Wherever you are in life, your habits determine 95% of your thoughts, feelings and actions. This book shows you how to develop the lifelong habits for great success." Brian Tracy, Motivation Expert and Author
Barry Schwartz. The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less
"As Americans, we assume that more choice means better options and greater satisfaction. But beware of excessive choice: choice overload can make you question the decisions you make before you even make them, it can set you up for unrealistically high expectations, and it can make you blame yourself for any and all failures. In the long run, this can lead to decision-making paralysis, anxiety, and perpetual stress..."C.R. Snyder, R. L. Higgins. Self-Handicapping: The Paradox That Isn't
Robert J. Sternberg, PhD. Why smart people can be so stupid
Noah St. John. Permission To Succeed
Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. Taming Your Inner Brat: A Guide for Transforming Self-Defeating Behavior
Janet Geringer Woititz. The Self-Sabotage Syndrome: Adult Children in the Workplace
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