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Quite
justifiably, we believe that there's a fine line between sensuality and
sexuality. We also believe that there's a difference between
pornography and art. In fact, these two distinctions often blend into
one another.
We regard art as sensual and pornography as more overtly sexual. Warding off the charge of pornography, photography, sculpture and painting often veil the human body, especially the more eroticized female nude, by representing it in aesthetic poses and allegorical situations that evoke thoughts, emotions and dreams, not only carnal desires. |
If
the boundary between pornography and art is so heatedly debated,
however, it's partly because it's drawn by our own subjective
reactions. Who is to say that an aesthetic pose elevates the mind and
not just the senses?
Claudia Moscovici - from the Philosophy section of her site: Postromanticism
image [hand holding fruit] from book : Talk Dirty to Me: An Intimate Philosophy of Sex by Sallie Tisdale |
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Protecting children is one of our chief duties as adults, whether we are parents, professionals, or friends.
But we also have to ask: What are we protecting them from? My book says that sexuality is a fact of life, and a potentially wonderful part of growing up for children at all stages of their lives. It's not sex itself that is harmful to children, but the conditions under which they might express themselves sexually that can leave them vulnerable to harms like HIV, unwanted pregnancy, or sexual violence. |
Judith Levine - from Univ of Minnesota Press interview > about her book Harmful to Minors: The Perils of Protecting Children from Sex > photo : Leonard Whiting and Olivia Hussey in Romeo and Juliet (1968) In our country, there are people pushing a conservative religious agenda that would deny minors all sexual information and sexual expression.They're the people behind abstinence-only education, the child-pornography laws that get people arrested for taking pictures of their babies in the bathtub, or laws that make abortion risky and traumatic for young women. These so-called protections are more harmful to minors than sex itself. |
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The onslaught of porn
is responsible for deadening male libido in relation to real women, and
leading men to see fewer and fewer women as "porn-worthy."Far from having to fend off porn-crazed young men, young women are worrying that as mere flesh and blood, they can scarcely get, let alone hold, their attention. Here is what young women tell me on college campuses when the subject comes up: They can’t compete, and they know it. For how can a real woman -- with pores and her own breasts and even sexual needs of her own (let alone with speech that goes beyond "More, more, you big stud!") -- possibly compete with a cybervision of perfection, downloadable and extinguishable at will, who comes, so to speak, utterly submissive and tailored to the consumer’s least specification? |
For most of human history, erotic images have been reflections of, or celebrations of, or substitutes for, real naked women.For the first time in human history, the images' power and allure have supplanted that of real naked women. Today, real naked women are just bad porn. For two decades, I have watched young women experience the continual “mission creep” of how pornography -- and now Internet pornography -- has lowered their sense of their own sexual value and their actual sexual value. from
article The
Porn Myth - by Naomi Wolf [above],
image
at left from her book Promiscuities
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.. .. John Waters - about plans to develop a Broadway play of "Cry-Baby" [Entertainment Weekly, Aug 8 2003] |
"Contemporary
art is sex," says notorious Pink Flamingos auteur John
Waters, and he has teamed up with Artforum
contributing editor Bruce Hainley to bring us Art -- A Sex Book.
Dubbed an "exhibition in a book," the profusely illustrated trade paperback features works by almost 70 artists, from the raucously pornographic Keith Boadwee to the pastoral Maureen Gallace. In between are six "rooms," or chapters, accompanied by a transcribed conversation between the two authors. JW: All sex is messy. BH: And comical. [artnet.com] Art: A Sex Book - by John Waters, Bruce Hainley |
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.. .. From Bring it On to Ten Things I Hate About You to Legally Blonde to Freaky Friday (the new version), if there was a plucky teenage girl heroine, Hollywood could count on me plunking down good money to sit in the theater and cheer her on. I could identify. My inner sixteen-year-old girl was achingly lonely and needed some encouragement. She was still waiting for someone to take off her glasses, give her a makeover and turn her from bookworm to prom queen. |
And
then came Mean Girls. Apparently, somewhere along the way, my inner sixteen-year-old
girl grew up into a guy.
I sat in the theater on a Saturday morning, surrounded by teen girls and their parents, and I suddenly felt like a dirty old man. Partly because a single man my age in a sea of underage girls tends to look suspicious, and partially because, as I watched the movie, I didn't identify with Lindsay Lohan. I lusted after her. I sat there thinking, "Damn, she's hot," and not in my normal, "Damn she's hot in that fabulous outfit!" kind of way. from article Teen Queen - by Andrew Horwitz [Nerve.com] (left
to right) Lacey Chabert, Rachel McAdams, Lindsay Lohan and Amanda Seyfried
in "Mean Girls" -
Andrew
Horwitz [writing as "Andy Ohio"]
Slow Grind: Gay Men Tell Their Real-Life
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.. .. and Intimacy - by Tricia Rose Tricia Rose [Professor and chairwoman of the American Studies department, University of California at Santa Cruz] ... has published her second book, "Longing to Tell.."... the first compilation of black women's oral histories about all aspects of sexuality. It has been applauded by scholars like Henry Louis Gates Jr., chairman of African and African-American Studies at Harvard. Mr. Gates said black sensitivity to stereotypes of hyper-sexuality has too often meant silence on sexuality or excessive policing of it in popular culture and among scholars. Ms. Rose, 41, said her second book is not simply a departure from hip-hop [subject of her first book] but a continuation of her fascination with representations of black women and men. ... |
"Longing"
has a bigger mission than publicizing women's sexual experiences: losing
virginity, sexual abuse, love.
"This book began as an attempt to answer a scholarly question: how has the history of race, class and gender inequality in this country affected the way that black women talk about their sexual lives?" Ms. Rose wrote in the foreword. She herself interviewed the 20 women featured, choosing them from a range of ages, classes and experiences. Using pseudonyms, they discuss how skin-color distinctions among blacks shaped their lives, as well as discrimination and sexual harassment by men of all colors. The only general conclusion that Ms. Rose draws from the stories is that many of the issues the women discuss, like being considered "exotic," cannot be untangled from the larger context of economic and sexual exploitation of black women and men, sexism and sexual myths. "The stories we know help us see who we are," Ms. Rose said... "If we don't take those stories seriously and understand them as part of our social and political formation, then we may be increasingly manipulated in ways we may not want to be." from
article Class With the 'Ph.D. Diva' -
photo by Jim MacKenzie from triciarose.com |
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| Western
culture is a very complex combination of two traditions the Judeo-Christian
and the Greco-Roman. The overarching argument of all of my work is that
paganism was never in fact defeated by Christianity but instead went underground
to resurface at three key moments the Renaissance, Romanticism, and twentieth-century
popular culture, whose sex and violence I interpret as pagan phenomena.
I am saying that the tension and conflict between those two traditions account for the enormity and grandeur and staggering variety of Western art. Hence I want to encourage and intensify that conflict, since I think it crucial to Western achievement. Camille Paglia... [America Online chat 1995]
Sexual Personae: Art and Decadence from Nefertiti to Emily Dickinson The Delphic Oracle by John William Godward (1899) [detail] [image from artrenewal.org] >> |
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| When
I was twelve I was arrested for shoplifting a copy of Sacher-Masoch's Venus
in Furs from the Walgreens in the 7-High shopping center in Minnetonka,
Minnesota.
I'd spent the best part of the afternoon reading the book and had to have it. This is a perfect example of what my father calls, thinking with your dick. I think that's one of the great reasons adolescence is the best times to read. There are so few people for children to talk about sex with, especially any deviation from the norm. ... Pornography, the good parts at least, bears rereading better than most "great literature." A good pornographer can really touch his reader. Unfortunately, most of it is written for idiots or psychopaths. Kurt Thometz - from his connoisseurweb.com interview of Susanna Moore image from book: Leopold von Sacher-Masoch. Venus in Furs |
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The Mammoth Book of Illustrated Erotica by Marilyn Jaye Lewis, Maxim Jakubowski
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***more books:**
Aroused : A Collection of Erotic Writing - by Karen Finley
Art: A Sex Book - by John Waters, Bruce Hainley
Bernard of Hollywood Ultimate Pin-Up Book by Susan Bernard
Bisexuality and the Eroticism of Everyday Life by Marjorie Garber
The Book of the Courtesans: A Catalogue of Their Virtues - by Susan Griffin
Bound and Gagged: Pornography and the Politics of Fantasy in America by Laura Kipnis
Complicated Women : Sex and Power in Pre-Code Hollywood by Mick Lasalle
Delta of Venus - by Anais Nin
Erotic Innocence: The Culture of Child Molesting - by James R. Kincaid
Claiming that our culture has yet to come to terms with the bungled legacy of Victorian sexuality, Kincaid examines how children and images of youth are idealized, fetishized, and eroticized in everyday culture.The Erotic Writer's Market Guide - by Lawrence Schimel, Rachel Kramer Bussel (November 2004)
Erotica Universalis, Volume II by Gilles Neret
The Erotic Lives of Women - by Linda Troeller, Marion Schneider
Fast Girls: Teenage Tribes and the Myth of the Slut by Emily White
Feminism and Sexuality by Stevi Jackson, Sue Scott
From Reverence to Rape: The Treatment of Women in the Movies - by Molly Haskell
A History of the Breast by Marilyn Yalom
How to Write a Dirty Story : Reading, Writing & Publishing Erotica - by Susie Bright
Longing to Tell : Black Women Talk About Sexuality and Intimacy - by Tricia Rose
"By breaking a public silence, Professor Rose and her storytellers here have done us all a great service. This is one of the first brave steps in beginning to fill in the obliterated stories of black women's many sexualities."
-- Naomi Wolf, author of The Beauty Myth"In Longing to Tell, Tricia Rose shares something all too rare: a good conversation with trusted women friends. The emotional power and raw poetry of these candid accounts compels our attention while gently nudging us to contemplate the larger narrative of race, class, color, sexuality and gender within which each intimate story unfolds."
-- Lani Guinier, Bennett Boskey Professor of Law, Harvard Law School
Meeting the Great Bliss Queen: Buddhists, Feminists and the Art of the Self - by Anne Carolyn KleinObserving the Erotic Imagination by Robert J. Stoller
Pandora's Box - by Susan Meiselas (Photographer), Mistress Raven, Richard August, Mistress Delilah
Mistress Raven heads a staff of 14 at Pandora's Box, a 4000-square-foot, high-class Manhattan sex club that bills itself as the "Disneyland of Domination." Interspersed with pages made of latex, rubber, colored gels, and other erotic materials, Magnum photographer Susan Meiselas's documentary photographs of the club's highly formalised rules and rituals, its role-playing "vacations from reality," reveal both the customers who frequent the club and the women who command them. First commissioned to accompany the Nick Broomfield documentary "Fetishes", Meiselas's "Pandora's Box" is a darkly captivating journey into a high-class sex club that specializes in sado-masochism.
Pin-Up Dreams: The Glamour Art of Rolf Armstrong by Janet Dobson and Michael WooldridgeThe Politics of Women's Bodies: Sexuality, Appearance, and Behavior by Rose Weitz
Porn Studies - by Linda Williams
In her pioneering book Hard Core, Linda Williams put moving-image pornography on the map of contemporary scholarship with her pathbreaking analysis of the most popular and enduring of all film and video genres. Now, fifteen years later, she showcases the next generation of critical thinking about pornography and signals new directions for study and teaching. [amazon.com summary] Linda Williams is a professor of rhetoric and film studies at UC Berkeley.Promiscuities : The Secret Struggle for Womanhood by Naomi Wolf
The Rotenberg Collection : Forbidden Erotica by Mark Rotenberg, Laura Mirsky
Sex and the City by Candace Bushnell
Sex: An Intimate Companion - by Stephen Bayley
An exploration of sex and sexuality. It consists of a selection of thematic articles written by "Erotic Review" contributors and a few major international writers such as Norman Mailer and Camille Paglia. The articles cover a range of topics, from the snake in Eden to cybersex and Lara Croft, drawing on themes from aphrodisiac to fetishism, and relationships to prostitution. It is illustrated from the archives of the Erotic Print Society. Other contributors include Clive James, India Knight, Jonathon Green, Michael Bywater and Simon Raven. [Amazon.com synopsis]Sex, Time and Power: How Women's Sexuality Shaped Human Evolution -- by Leonard ShlainThe Surrender : An Erotic Memoir - by Toni Bentley
"I am sitting on the threshold. Perhaps this is the final paradox of God's paradoxical machinations: my ass is my very own back door to heaven. The Pearly Gates are closer than you think." Bentley is writing of her rhapsodic experience with sodomy. So some will call this memoir blasphemous, others spiritual; some pornographic, others erotic. What it is, is wonderfully smart and sexy and witty and moving, a tale of unbounded passion that leads to transcendence. [Publishers Weekly]Venus in Furs - Leopold von Sacher-Masoch.
Voluptuous Panic: The Erotic World of Weimar Berlin by Mel Gordon
With Pleasure: Thoughts on the Nature of Human Sexuality by Paul R. Abramson, Steven D. Pinkerton
Working Girls: Gender and Sexuality in Popular Cinema by Yvonne Tasker
XXX : 30 Porn-Star Portraits - by Timothy Greenfield-Sanders
Performers in the book include celebrities such as Jenna Jameson (the leading porn star of our time), Ron Jeremy, and Nina Hartley, as well as fast-rising names like Sunrise Adams, Belladonna, and Chad Hunt.
The book includes short essays on the intersection of pornography and culture by a wide range of distinguished writers, from Salman Rushdie to John Malkovich, Nancy Friday to John Waters. XXX is a landmark artistic work that will contribute to the ongoing debate about the pornification of the culture at large.XXX: The Power of Sex in Contemporary Design - by Joshua Berger, Sarah Dougher
Erotic European advertisements entice by equating breath mints with sexual desire. Mirko Ilic’s images pulsate with icky-sticky-sexy implications. Suddenly the male-female gender binary and representations of power seem as dry as haystacks.~ ~ ~ ~But after flipping through the book a few times, unable to resist its kinky allure, it’s easier to settle down and sift through Dougher’s thoughts. Her most important point -- and the point of the book, really -- is that all of these shocking images, as radical as they seem on the surface, generally contain average, white-bread conventions about sexuality.
from Sexy design - a review by Kathleen St. John
..................DVDs....
Femme Productions titles - Sex/Erotica for Women series directed byCandida Royalle :
The Gift / Christine's Secret / The Bridal Shower
Claire of the Moon [dvd]........
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Y Tu Mama Tambien [dvd] ........
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Secretary..[[dvd]- James Spader, Maggie Gyllenhaal ........
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Sex, Lies, and Videotape. Andie MacDowell.......
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Exotica Don McKellar and Mia Kirshner.......
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....articles:
.. .. Sex has been a commodity for generations and pornography is the perfect thing for consumerism. |
Pornography
basically instills unquenchable desire and that's the perfect thing for
a consumer culture, which is what we're really living in, much more than
a democracy. ...
There's been this real denial of desire, particularly female desire. I'm so sick of seeing stories of women who have no desire for anything, much less sex. There's been so much controversy surrounding the explicitness of this film [Center of The World (2001)]. I'm not interested in taking my top off to titillate an audience. I think I take these kinds of roles on because I know how far I can go with it and I'm not interested in doing them unless I think the point of view, the gaze, so to speak, is from someplace that I feel comfortable with as a feminist. Molly Parker....[from
article
Good Golly Ms. Molly!
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.. .. We are ashamed of what turns us on. /// Mainstream porn, a lot of it I don't like, so I don't watch it. ... I like more innovative, more intellectual kind of porn.. But I think there is room for everything. I am glad that there is so much out there because we learn about what we don't like and what we do like by seeing something, rather than just hearing about it or conceptualizing it. Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D. |
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There is alternative porn out there -- porn produced for women by women, artistic porn, porn representing all shapes, sizes, sexualities, fantasies, and colors of the rainbow -- you just have to find it. Check out production companies like House O'Chicks, and Femme Productions, look up feminist porn-makers such as Scarlot Harlot, Candida Royalle, and, our featured interviewee, Dr. Annie Sprinkle. Anna Petrisko ..from
article:...Porno
Flicks with Sprinkles on Top - Candida
Royalle's Christine's
Secret
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from book Annie
Sprinkle: |
~ ~ ~ ~About Innocence - by Eolake Stobblehouse - on his site DOMAI"I think there are two big misconceptions about innocence. One of them is that it has anything to do with sex. The other is that it is a thing that is easily shattered, and once it is gone, it is lost forever."
Perversion: Transgressive Sexuality and Becoming-Monster - by Patricia MacCormack [thirdspace]The Porn Myth - by Naomi Wolf
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