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Lindsay Lohan

Kristen Stewart

Kate Bosworth, 
Val Kilmer

Lauren Bacall, 
Humphrey Bogart

Hilary Duff

We [film critics] generally ignore, or at least pretend to ignore, the sexual electricity of the young actresses who are bursting into womanhood.//

When Bogie tangled with Bacall in To Have and Have Not [1945], he was 44 and she was all of 19. And 26 years ago, Brooke Shields was presented as an object of pure lust in Pretty Baby . 

But I don't know if the studios have ever made so many movies about pretty girls between the ages of 13 and 19. ///

In fact, they're pushing the female stars of the 1990s right over the romantic-comedy ledge. ....

So it goes for the middle-aged male critic who sees the undeniably chesty Lindsay Lohan in Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen , or the fresh-faced Kate Bosworth.. getting humped by Val Kilmer in Wonderland, or even one of those Nickelodeon-grown teenage stars bouncing up and down after getting her first kiss. ///

In our reviews, we say things like "Ms. Lohan is becoming a beautiful young woman" and "Ms. Bosworth reminds one of the prettiest girl on the homecoming court" and "Ms. Duff is an adorable screen presence." 

What we hardly ever say -- not to one another and not to our readers or viewers -- is something like: "Damn! They didn't make 'em like that when I was in high school." 

To do so would be to admit the truth: that men never stop appreciating the unique beauty of girls who are just becoming women -- and some of the most enticing young women in the world are the ones who are starring in these movies. 

In fact, that's one of the prime reasons they've become starlets: the way they look. They come to the table with physical gifts, and they're presented onscreen in a stylized, sexualized manner, and they are objects of fantasy, whether they're playing the good girl who writes in her journal every night or a 21st-century Lolita.

Richard Roeper - from his article: 
The Jailbait Dilemma, Esquire, May 2004
photo of Roeper from suntimes.com

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By the time Clueless rolled, I was out of the closet as a fan of teen girl movies. I loved watching these smart, sassy heroines overcome peer pressure and social obstacles to reach self-realization and get the hottie. 

From Bring it On to Ten Things I Hate About You to Legally Blonde to Freaky Friday (the new version), if there was a plucky teenage girl heroine, Hollywood could count on me plunking down good money to sit in the theater and cheer her on. I could identify.

My inner sixteen-year-old girl was achingly lonely and needed some encouragement. She was still waiting for someone to take off her glasses, give her a makeover and turn her from bookworm to prom queen.

And then came Mean Girls. Apparently, somewhere along the way, my inner sixteen-year-old girl grew up into a guy. 

I sat in the theater on a Saturday morning, surrounded by teen girls and their parents, and I suddenly felt like a dirty old man. 

Partly because a single man my age in a sea of underage girls tends to look suspicious, and partially because, as I watched the movie, 

I didn't identify with Lindsay Lohan. I lusted after her. I sat there thinking, "Damn, she's hot," and not in my normal, "Damn she's hot in that fabulous outfit!" kind of way.

from article Teen Queen - by Andrew Horwitz [Nerve.com]

(left to right) Lacey Chabert, Rachel McAdams, Lindsay Lohan and Amanda Seyfried in "Mean Girls" - 
photo © Paramount Pictures

Andrew Horwitz [writing as "Andy Ohio"] 
has stories in two books:
Best Bisexual Erotica  
Slow Grind: Gay Men Tell Their
Real-Life
Sex Stories 

 
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Just before Vladimir Nabokov sailed to America, he'd gotten an idea for a novel about a man who falls in love with a young girl. 

He didn't think he'd be able to sell a novel on such a risque subject, so he kept putting it off for other things. The idea wouldn't go away, but even after he started writing it, he considered giving up. 

He said, "I was on the point of burning the unfinished draft and had carried [it] as far as the shadow of the leaning incinerator on the innocent lawn, when I was stopped by the thought that the ghost of the destroyed book would haunt my files for the rest of my life."

In the summer of 1951, he and his wife drove to Colorado in their Oldsmobile station wagon, and he began to work on his novel in the car.

He wrote in pencil on index cards, so that he could write scenes from the novel out of order and rearrange them later. When he got back to Cornell in the fall, he began doing research on young girls, traveling on city buses to learn current slang, writing down popular song titles and phrases from teen magazines and Girl Scout manuals.

He finished the novel in 1953, but when he sent the draft to friends, most of them were horrified, and told him that he could never publish it. 

It was rejected by all the major publishing houses in the United States, so he finally had it brought out anonymously in France by a publisher who specialized in pornography. 

He played around with different titles, including "The Kingdom by the Sea," but in the end the novel was called Lolita (1955). 

After a few years of controversy, it was published in the United States in 1958, and went on to become a bestseller and a movie. 

Nabokov had put off writing it for so many years partly because he was afraid that it wouldn't make any money, but in the end it was the success of Lolita that allowed him to retire from teaching. 

Nabokov said, "Existence is a series of footnotes to a vast, obscure, unfinished masterpiece."

from The Writer's Almanac 23 April 2004 [site

photo: Sue Lyon in Lolita (1962) [dvd]

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"I'm not quite womanly. But I am looking forward to being able 
to vote, and to buy porn if I want to."
 

18-year-old Scarlett Johansson on her new adulthood, 
in Rolling Stone [quoted in BUST, Winter 2003]

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..Fantasies of a Young Submissive

I have had feelings of submission for as long as I can remember. As these feelings began to intensify, in my early teens, I knew that I was different from my friends. 

While they were all kissing pictures of Brad Pitt before going to sleep at night, I was curled up beneath my blankets, armed with a torch and engrossed in the dark sado-masochistic novels of Pauline Reage, Leopold von Sacher-Masoch and the Marquis De Sade. ....

[My] book contains a collection of short stories and poetry with the theme of spanking, bondage, slavery, submission and highbrow erotica as well as a unique collection of fetish art photographs. 

I am still very inexperienced in the ways of the erotic world and so it was something of a journey of self discovery.

Rosaleen Young- from her site

Fetish modelling fitted like a glove and gave me the opportunity to explore my submission and share the joy of it with others. ....

I derive pleasure from my pain, power from my submission. The sensual excitement that I receive from being punished does not end at the physical level. I feel a deep psychological strength, relief, even pride at having endured it. 

I have tried to analyse my own feelings in order to derive some kind of psychological explanation for the way I am. I know that I am physically aroused by the sensation of pain on certain areas of my body but it is the mental rewards that are most important in understanding why I crave such sensations.

Growing up in a conservative, Presbyterian family, I was made to feel guilty over the slightest inappropriate thought let alone having naughty fantasies about being dominated and punished. 

In an endless and ironic cycle, I found myself chastised for these feelings by the very subject that they were centred around - being spanked.

Rosaleen Young - from her book Fantasies of a Young Submissive
[reviewed in Mensa Bulletin, Nov/Dec 2003]

> photo from book Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys
of Female Submission - by Claudia Varrin

related pages:.....cutting / self-injury........the shadow self

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"It is not in my plan or my life to be a sex symbol," says Jessica Biel.

"You are who you are and you can't help what you look like, so I would prefer to downplay it -- the sex appeal -- because there's so much stuff all over the place and I really wanted this movie ["The Texas Chainsaw Massacre"] to be scary and real and not about protruded breast shots."

Inevitably the conversation switches gear - literally, to her infamous semi-nude photo shoot that appeared in soft-porn Gear Magazine three years ago. 

Then a rising teenage star thanks to the family-oriented Seventh Heaven, the photo shoot seemed to be a deliberate ploy on Biel's part to change her image so as not to be typecast as the good girl next door. 

Not true, says a defiant Biel who, three years later, remains clearly bitter over that experience. 

"I want to say that because I was 17 years old, it was my first adult photo shoot. It was supposed to be sexy and fun and not at all naked," Biel says. 

"It was just supposed to be underwear, but I got in a situation where I was encouraged and I was not looked after by the people I was working with." ...


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Yet, the older but wiser Biel has no regrets, "because I've learned about being able to stand up for myself and say: You know what, no, I'm not going to wear that? 

"I was working with a lot of men, who were my managers which wasn't a good thing for me. I really needed to be surrounded by a woman or women who would just say, That's really not the smartest idea." 

Biel says that degree of exploitation is not uncommon in Hollywood. "I think this happens to so many girls and it's not a bad sob story. 

"I'm not looking for people to go, oh.  I mean this was one of the hardest times I went through my whole entire life.  I really embarrassed my family, I embarrassed myself.  Thank God for 7th Heaven, the fans and Aaron Spelling who was so forgiving. 

"But the reality is, when your 17 years old, you think you know everything, you want to be 25," Biel says laughingly. 

"You want to wear the sexy clothes and someone says, yeah, that looks great, why don't you just lift that up?"

from interview by Paul Fischer, Dark Horizons 
darkhorizons.com Oct 17 2003

related page:.....nudity: art / identity / activism.

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We've all seen it happen in the classroom and in the hallways. ... With ruthless abandon, these sexual insults are used to put people down. Who are the main targets of these insults? Girls. ... 
Lisa was walking to her class when she was grabbed, held up against a wall and kissed. 

"I felt embarrassed and ashamed. When I told the teacher of my next class, she said that I shouldn't have been horsing around. Basically, she blew me off. She said it was a joke." ... 

If a male boss or co-worker can be suspended or even fired from his job for harassing a female, why do teenage girls today feel that sexual harassment is no big deal?

from "Suffering in Silence: Sexual Harassment" 
by Anne Preller, 15 - 
from the book Blue Jean: What Young Women Are 
Thinking, Saying, and Doing - by Sherry S. Handel

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There comes a time in a young girl's life when she is ripe and ready for love, when there is a richness about her, a glow, a honeyed tumescence that draws men like bees to blossom. 

Call it what you will, nature, biology, pheromones, or lust, it is the moment, that perfect moment when her hormones are sizzling, when she melts, when her eyes are dewy with promise, when everything about her is sending out urgent messages. 

In short, nature works overtime to make her absolutely irresistible. 

For me, as I open this account, that moment had not yet come. There were still two years of preparation, during which I matured from a gauche schoolgirl into a wide-eyed young woman standing on the threshold of adult life. ...

I was a solitary tomboy given to roaming the wild country around our Cornish home, dreaming of adventure and exploration, not of romance and sex. 

I wasn't coltish and leggy like my best friend, Pamela, a solicitor's daughter, who had tumbling fair curls and come-hither dark blue eyes that had the boys chasing her in droves. 

Small and sturdy, I was built like a moorland pony with shaggy brown hair and the apple cheeks of a country girl. Circumstances had not yet placed me in the right place at the right time.


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I was waiting in the wings, the stage still empty, the curtain not yet risen on a terrible and painful love affair.

Mostly, I felt unsettled, a sense of groping for the unknown, of my body developing an inner life of its own, beyond my control. ... It was a period when sex was a taboo word between the generations.

Rosemary Kingsland  ... [usatoday.com]

...excerpt from her book The Secret Life of a Schoolgirl

[Publishers Weekly:] Kingsland's delightfully lusty memoir of her girlhood in Cornwall and London is writ around a secret she has kept for more than 40 years and had noted only in her diaries: in 1955, at 14, she lost her virginity to her first crush, legendary English actor Richard Burton.

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In "Training Day," in which Eva Mendes played Denzel Washington's girl on the side... her nude scene reveals as much naked emotion as flesh. Her vivacious, sparky attitude and way with a sweater at times make Mendes seem like a throwback to the days of Jane Russell and Rita Hayworth. 

The contemporary spin for a young actress, however, is the question of how much to take off for whom.

"That's where your sense of self comes into play," she says. "I just did the photo shoot for my first magazine cover. I'm very excited and had a great time, but I'm half-naked. Some people might say you went naked for a film. What's the difference?

"Well," she says, answering her own question, "with 'Training Day' it was presented to me as a topless scene. And when I sat down with [director] Antoine Fuqua and talked to him about why she was topless in this scene, he said, no one's going to go for full nudity. And I said, well, I will.

"So it was basically my idea. It was the honest thing for my character in that moment. But that was a serious film that Denzel won the Oscar for. This is a magazine my 14-year-old nephews will flip through. That's the difference, and it makes me nervous."


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There's a scene in "2 Fast 2 Furious" which finds Mendes wriggling on a chaise longue like an old-time photo-club model, her white bikini contrasting sharply against her darkly tanned skin and a towel wrapped casually around her head.

"That scene to me was campy and I had fun doing it... I got pressured to do that scene with wet hair, really sexy. With as much control as I had, which wasn't much, I tried to take it to another place. It seemed more interesting with the towel than the wet, dripping hair."

Was there ever any talk of the scene revealing more? "Because it's a PG-13 film, that was never even a discussion," she responds. "And if it had come up, that discussion would have ended quickly with me saying no. The power of saying no is a beautiful thing. I love to say no. Rather than complain or say you're being exploited, well, say no. There's always that option."

[from "She's making heads turn" by Mark Olsen, LA Times May 4, 2003]

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Megan [Natasha Lyonne]: Cheers are supposed to be simple, make people feel good.

Graham [Clea DuVall]: Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good.

from But I'm a Cheerleader (1999) [dvd]

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I don't really remember ever not having my dolls have sex with each other. Even the Barbies would get it on with other Barbies, and the guys would get it on with each other.
Natalie Portman in Rolling Stone
[reported in BUST magazine Fall 2002]


"Plastic Love" - photography by Cheryl Townsend - from site:  W.A.R.M. (Womens Art Recognition Movement) >

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website: Teen Sexuality 
in a Culture of Confusion - 
A Documentary Study

Enid (Thora Birch) and 
Seymour (Steve Buscemi) 
in Ghost World

Tara (Amber Benson) and 
Willow (Alyson Hannigan)
in Buffy*the Vampire Slayer

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"I would never make a movie about a sexual relationship between an older man and a young girl," says actor-turned-director Christine Lahti [right]. "We have way too many of those, and they're kind of pathetic." 

Albert Brooks plays the manager of a men's clothing store who hires a pierced, tattooed goth teenager (Leelee Sobieski) and stumbles into a soulful (but platonic) romance with her that exposes both parties' vulnerabilities. "That's why I love this movie," Brooks says. "It's like there's some unwritten law that people of different generations can't help each other without the bed being involved."*[Premiere mag. article]

<< Randall (Albert Brooks) and Jennifer / 'J' (Leelee Sobieski) in My First Mister

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Some characteristics innate to the highly gifted can complicate an adolescent's developing sexuality. These include asynchrony (either early or late sexual development), social isolation, sensual overexcitability, and androgyny. ...

Highly gifted high school students who felt socially isolated in elementary and middle school have talked about discovering sex as a new, intense way to finally connect with other people.

A 20-year-old highly gifted young man said that when he went away to an early entrance college program at 15, he finally knew what it was really like to have true peers, and sex was one of the ways that the students all related to each other. 

A quiet and studious gifted young woman explained to me that through her open sexuality in high school, she attracted classmates who had previously ignored her. She described the experience as validating and empowering.

from article: Sex and the Highly Gifted Adolescent by Annette Revel Sheely, M.A. 
[Gifted Development Center]

*related pages:****developing identity****intensity / sensitivity****personal qualities

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My daugher is very different than [I was.] Of course I don't really know what I was like at five, but she's very sexual; she's very flirtatious. 

But I have to say that I think part of my strength as a person growing up was that my mother never placed any particular value on femininity or sexual attractiveness or being enticing. There's so much cultural pressure to be like that. 

Cynthia Nixon****[Bust, Summer 2002]  //   dvd: Sex and the City - The Complete Third Season

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Mariel Hemingway never batted an eye at the idea of portraying a lesbian athlete when she was just 17 years old. In fact, she got the offer to star in Personal Best thanks to another risky performance -- as Woody Allen's decades-younger girlfriend in Manhattan. Surprisingly, Hemingway insists that no one tried to talk her out of playing a role that involved a nude love scene with another woman. 

"My parents were cool," she says. "Nobody ever said anything, and rightly so. I would have thought they were ridiculous if they did." As the film neared production Hemingway discovered that other performers were not so open-minded. "I was astonished at how many actresses were all freaked out about auditioning for the other role," Hemingway says. 

"And people you wouldn't suspect! I mean, you would think they would be totally cool, but they were freaked. It was bizarre. They would come in and read, and then when it came to the kissing, either they'd be way overenthusiastic about it or totally terrified."***[The Advocate, August 18, 1998]

Mariel Hemingway with Patrice Donnelly in Personal Best (1982)  // 

memoir Finding My Balance by Mariel Hemingway (January 2003)

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After doing the scream-queen thing in Halloween H20, Michelle Williams made some atypical ingénue moves: playing a sexually abused (and frequently nude) teen in the 1999 Off-Broadway play Killer Joe and a flower child in love with Chloë Sevigny's greaser chick in the HBO drama If These Walls Could Talk 2.

Looking back, Williams says, "There was this sexual theme. I was interested in sex in my own life -- not questioning whether I wanted men or women, but exploring sex in the context of an adult life. I couldn't really talk about it yet, but somebody I was playing could."****[Elle, June 2002]


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Teenage girls who are considered attractive are sought after by young males, increasing the likelihood
that they will have more decisions to make about relationships and, perhaps, more options to marry
younger. They are also more sought after for friendships by other females.

from article: Internal barriers, personal issues, and decisions faced by gifted and talented females, by Sally M. Reis
 

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Grown men still come up and say I was "really hot"
in that film ["My Father The Hero"].

I was 14 for God's sake!

Katherine Heigl .. [FHM (UK), June 2001 - posted on kheigl.com]

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"Young actors often don't think of the consequences of doing nudity or sex scenes," says Natalie Portman. "They want the role so badly they agree to be exploited and then end up embarassing family, friends and even strangers."

Portman did not want to do some explicit scenes in "Anywher But Here" -- and had an ally in [co-star] Susan Sarandon. 

"Susan said she wouldn't do the movie without me, so Wayne [director Wayne Wang] and Fox agreed to the rewrites. The scene as rewritten is every bit as strong -- even though it is no longer explicit." 

Portman feels taking such stands makes her a positive role model..

"More young actresses have to say 'no' to being exploited. The same producers and directors aren't asking young actors to do these kind of things." *****[Calgary Sun, November 7, 1999]

Is it true you originally turned down Anywhere But Here because 
you had to do a sex scene, and your parents objected?

No, actually it was me. My parents never make decisions for me and they'd never stop me from doing something I want to do. 

They obviously always advise me not to do sexual scenes and nudity, not because they don't think it's appropriate to have them in films, but just because when you think about your life and how important it is to you, it always has to come before your career and any artistic decision.

Films are seen by so many people that it can be dangerous.

So you'd never do nudity?

No, I'm not saying that, but at 16 I was not ready or able to do that. And I never want to make any general statement about myself as I change my mind every single day. 

So what I may not be willing to do today I could be happy to do tomorrow. 

But everyone can change their minds, and I think often people are scared of being hypocritical and that's why I try not to make any longterm statements.****[imdb.com interview June 2002]

 

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Ryan Gosling.. admits he got into trouble for imparting carnal knowledge to the likes of Mouseketeers Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera and Justin Timberlake. 

He explains, "They would come and ask me questions about sex, and I just told them what I heard - like positions and stuff.

"All the other mothers went to Disney and told them I was corrupting their kids. I feel somewhat responsible for how sexual [Britney] is right now. When I see her with a snake around her neck, I think, 'Did I do that?'"... [imdb.com Celebrity News: 30th April 2002]


 
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....Why would a 14-year-old participate in a pornographic video? Patti did.

Patti is 14, a high school freshman and an aspiring artist. Michael is 17, a senior at the same school, and already a published, award-winning poet. He hopes, one day, to make it in the music business. Both live in upscale Palm Beach County, Florida.

At a local recreation center in December, 2001, these two teenagers, along with three schoolmates, got together to make a porn video. Patti, which is not her real name, had sexual intercourse with two of the boys, after being promised the chance to make $2,000. "They were producing child pornography. And according to their statements, to be distributed on the Internet," says prosecutor Lanna Belohlavek. ...

"She's artistic, a real smart girl," says Bob, Patti's father. "She's always had good grades until she got sidetracked. Physically, she was well developed. I would describe her as a young 14-year-old." "She falls to peer pressure a lot," says her mother, Marla. ...

In February 2002, prosecutors filed felony charges against the four boys: lewd and lascivious battery and promoting the sexual performance of a child. Three of boys were charged as juveniles, and took plea bargains. Michael was charged as an adult, and faced a possible 45-year prison term.

But, Patti was also charged. Says Belohlavek: "She indicates clearly that it was consensual on her part. And in fact, done for specific reasons, that being money." ... Despite all the trouble it has caused, Patti still believes it was no big deal. "We're kids," she says. "We make mistakes."

excerpts from program Kids For Sale: Child Pornography?  - CBS News, Jan. 8, 2003

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