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The standout pieces are..
about
women who used aloneness as a lab: painter Gwen John, poet Stevie
Smith, philosopher Simone Weil, Isak Dinesen, Rebecca West and
Katherine Mansfield [left].
Consciously or not, Dinnage studies these models for how to be a female
artist.
> From review by Laurie
Stone of
the book : Alone! Alone!: Lives of
Some Outsider Women - by Rosemary Dinnage
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In [the book] Solitude, the late British
psychiatrist
Anthony Storr points
out that creativity is often linked to seclusion. Henry James, Beatrix
Potter [above], Franz Kafka, Beethoven -- all were loners (though not
all were
content...).
The notion that aloneness entails
loneliness is
particularly America, says Rachel Naomi Remen.
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"In many other cultures, silence
and
solitude are accepted and built into the days." Not only does
imagination thrive but contempation is easier when the mind is
uninterrupted by the activity of others.
Perhaps, Remen suggests, we should wonder about the person who can
never be alone. "We all need time to hear ourselves."
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from
article "Feeling Adrift?" by Gretchen Reynolds, O, The Oprah Magazine,
Dec 2004
> book : Solitude: A Return to the Self - by Anthony Storr
> book : Kitchen
Table Wisdom --
by Rachel Naomi Remen
image from book cover : A Victorian Naturalist:
Beatrix Potter's Drawings...by Eileen Jay, et al
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I
believe a necessary part of the writing life is a certain selfishness
--
you have the right to steal away some time for yourself and your story.
It's the only way it will get done.
The
entire world will be against this (my college, which I love, has a
tendency
to hold committee meetings in the morning, which train-wrecks my
writing);
sometimes we have to tell the world to go away. And the world gets
ticked
off. And we write.
So.
Find a place to write, and find a time -- the same time, every day.
Alone.
No internet. No television. Maybe some Bach (I've been listening to
Gould's
Goldberg Variations as of late). This is the only way to get there.
Marcos
M. Villatoro - author, host of
Shelf Life on KPFK
from
Thoughts on Writing page
on his site
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Kim
Novak..
has chosen to live in a wooded paradise near Ashland, Oregon. Called
Windsong,
it's a place she and her husband, Bob Malloy, share with golden eagles,
geese, deer, elk and a host of other wild fauna, not to mention a
barnyard
full of farm animals.
"We
have two or three hundred acres, including two large islands," she
reported.
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So
does she ever get bored with the rustic life?
"Never,"
she insists. "We go on long rides with our horses. We kayak on the
river.
I cross-country ski in the winter.
"I
have my photography. I paint and sculpt and write poetry. And there are
always the animals to watch."
Things
haven't always been so idyllic at the ranch. In 2000, a fire destroyed
the manuscript of Novak's nearly completed autobiography.
She
also lost all of her memorabilia, including letters from Frank Sinatra
and James Stewart, jewelry, and posters of her films and photos. At
first
she despaired of resuming her memoir, but now she is back at work and
has
completed several chapters.
CNN.com
May 17, 2004
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His
real
problem, that Jonathan Franzen lays out with care all through the book,
is with a world in which the interior life becomes ever more threadbare
as the means to sustain it - especially the essential consolations of
serious
reading - wither away. ...
Franzen
weighs the pressures upon the self in a culture that manages the neat
trick
of discouraging real solitude and genuine community, substituting for
both
the paradox of media-overloaded isolation.
"The
first lesson reading teaches," he writes, "is how to be alone." Alone
yes,
but as he also shows, always with another consciousness. What good
fiction
fosters is not self-absorbed isolation but isolation as the first step
toward engaging the mind of the writer or his characters.
from
review by Richard Lacayo [Time.com Nov.
25,
2002] of
How
to Be Alone by Jonathan Franzen
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National
Book Award- winning novelist Franzen (The Corrections) urges readers to
say no to drugs, but not the pharmaceutical kind; his opiates are those
"technology offers in the form of TV, pop culture, and endless
gadgetry,"
soporifics that "are addictive and in the long run only make society's
problems worse."
Franzen's
just as hard on intellectual conformity - on academe's canonization of
third-rate but politically correct novels, for example. As a serious
artist,
he knows that the deck is stacked against him; after all, a great novel
is a kind of antiproduct, one that is "inexpensive, infinitely
reusable,
and, worst of all, unimprovable."
The
problem, he says, is that instead of being allowed to enjoy our solitary
uniqueness we are all being turned
into one gigantic corporate-created entity, a point Franzen makes
tellingly
when he says that while a black lesbian New Yorker and a Southern
Baptist
Georgian might appear totally different, the truth is that both "watch
Letterman every night, both are struggling to find health insurance...
both play Lotto, both dream of fifteen minutes of fame, both are taking
a serotonin reuptake inhibitor, and both have a guilty crush on Uma
Thurman."
These
canny, well-researched essays (which have appeared in the New Yorker,
Harper's
and elsewhere) range over a variety of subjects... but they are united
by a single passionate insistence that, in a cookie-cutter world,
people
who want simply to be themselves should have the right to do so. [from
Publishers Weekly review]
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I
am a writer who came of a sheltered life. A sheltered life can be
a
daring life as well. For all serious daring starts from within.
Eudora
Welty (1909-2001)
from
her autobiography, One
Writer's Beginnings
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[What
do you do to relax after a hard (or not so hard) day on the set?]
I usually
lock myself in my room, unplug my phone, light some candles, and put on
a little music. Everyone knows that when I am like that it is just
better
not to bother me. I have to admit it is some of my favorite time.
Lindze
Letherman [among
her acting roles is Georgie Jones on General Hospital]
from
interview by Andre Voshart, May 30, 2003 - posted on lindzeletherman.com
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Never
a stranger to doing things her own way, Ani
DiFranco has found herself doing them
alone
these days.
DiFranco,
who recently split with her longtime partner and sound engineer Andrew
Gilchrist, also decided to forego a band on her current tour.
She
also chalked up another first by producing her latest album, "Educated
Guess," entirely on her own -- as well as playing all the
instruments
herself.
Q :
Your approach, your energy on the current tour and on the new album
seem
different. Why is that?
Ani
DiFranco: The difference is solitude. I have it in my life now, and I
didn't
for years, at all.
But
there's been a lot of changes so now I'm alone on stage, it's been like
a year and a half, and I'm alone in my dressing room and I'm alone in
my
home. And there's just a lot less people around. So it allows for more
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Now
that
I've made this record at home alone, one of the things I've wanted to
do
for a long time is make just a guitar record, just an instrumental
record.
I thought
now that I got my engineering chops up at home and I'm kind of in the
groove
with my 8-track, I've sort of started working on that.
And
then I also, of course, still continue to write songs and I was
thinking
I might try collaborating in the studio with a producer and maybe make
a different situation than I've recorded thus far.
I think
I'm at a point in my career now where I could maybe even call somebody
up and say, "Are you interested in working on a record?" And they might
even be.
[Assoc.
Press/CNN.com February 18, 2004]
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Innovators
and creators are persons who can to a higher degree than average accept
the condition of aloneness. They are more willing to follow their own
vision,
even when it takes them far from the mainland of the human community.
Unexplored
places do not frighten them - or not, at any rate, as much as they
frighten
those around them. This is one of the secrets of their power. That
which
we call "genius" has a great deal to do with courage and daring, a
great
deal to do with nerve.
Nathaniel
Branden -
from
W-ISDOM list
4/08/04 // Nathaniel Branden books
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along with understanding what giftedness is all about, it's important
to
understand what introversion is all about, and that it's a normal
temperament,
and they really get their energy from solitude.
So
they need that solitude. That's healthy. In fact, to not make space for
solitude really puts gifted women at grave risk for developing
everything
from depression to eating disorders, as a way of trying to create
enough
personal space, maybe totally unconsciously.
Kathleen
Noble, PhD - from interview
by Douglas Eby
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Writing
in the March 1996 APA Monitor (American Psychological Association),
Hugh
McIntosh mentioned the work of Canadian psychologist Peter Suedfeld,
PhD
who studied restricted environmental stimulation in lone voyages, polar
stations and other solitary situations.
Everyone
experiences states where they need solitude more than at other times,
Suedfeld
said. In addition, some people seem to have a trait for solitude,
chronically
wanting or needing it more than others do.
from
article Gifted and Stressed by
Douglas Eby
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....Party
of One: The Loners' Manifesto by Anneli S.
Rufus
In
this compendium of everyone who was anyone who ever spent a moment
alone,
readers bump fleetingly into Kurt Cobain, French Resistance fighters,
the
Lone Ranger ("Tonto notwithstanding"), Michelangelo, Alexander Pope,
John
Lennon, cowboys, Saint Anthony and other solo acts.
Rufus,
the books editor of East Bay Express, views Degas's plain-faced dancers
as "pretty ballerinas" whom the artist leaves every time he exits his
studio,
and Warhol's biography as "tellingly titled Loner at the Ball."
She
chases her motif, not so much a manifesto as a cri de coeur, through an
assortment of perspectives: religion, advertising, clothes, crime, art,
eccentricity, environment, literature, religion and popular culture. [Publishers
Weekly review]
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Everyone
has a talent. What is rare is the courage to nurture it in solitude and
to follow
the
talent to the dark places where it leads.
Erica
Jong - from
newsletter
of National Association of Women Writers - naww.org
books
by Erica Jong: What
Do Women Want?
Becoming
Light: Poems New and
Selected
/ photo
from ericajong.com
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Silence
has many dimensions. It can be a regression and an escape, a loss of
self,
or it can be presence, awareness, unification, self-discovery.
Negative
silence blurs and confuses our identity and we lapse into daydreams or
diffuse anxieties. Positive silence pulls us together and makes us
realize
who we are, who we might be, and the distance between these two.
Hence,
positive silence implies a disciplined choice, and what Paul Tillich
called
the "courage to be."
Thomas
Merton - from article Creative
Silence (Monastic
Interreligious Dialog, August 2001)
....book: **Thoughts
in Solitude
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"Creativity
is not always something to do with the arts or writing," Isabel Allende
has said. "It has to do with the way you carry your life." A novelist,
journalist and playwright, at age 57 she exclaims, "Now, finally, I
have
a room of my own where I can write.
"Silence
and solitude are important to me. They weren't important before because
I was trained as a journalist and could write anywhere. But as I get
older,
I need more concentration."
from
article Creativity and maturity
- by
Douglas Eby
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In
grade school I had been ridiculed for being different, for wearing
glasses
and using big words. ... So this year I became a member of that
all-too-ominous,
nonexistent, antisocial group, the Outcasts. It's not just that I'm too
smart, because there are smart people who are popular. ...
I enjoy
discussions in class, I like to analyze poetry. I have yet to find
anyone
to sit with me at lunch and debate euthanasia. So a lot of my life is
in
my head, in my thoughts. I've learned to handle solitude creatively.
from
"Lilacs Bloom Every Spring" by Julia Rodriguez
...in
the book Blue
Jean: What Young
Women
Are Thinking, Saying, and Doing - by Sherry S. Handel
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....books:
Ester
Buchholz The
Call of Solitude: Alonetime in a World of Attachment
"Solitude
is an important route to creativity; indeed research on creative and
talented
teenagers suggests that the most talented.. are those who treasure
their
solitude. However, the artist in all of us must risk disconnection, for
forging a happy and worthwhile life -- and navigating through that life
fully and gracefully -- is itself a creative act." [excerpt of book,
from
Psychology Today, Jan/Feb.98]
Thomas
Merton. Thoughts
in Solitude
Anneli
S. Rufus. Party
of One: The Loners' Manifesto
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